You gota lie man, make up a question for her(even if u know the answer), ask her if youv met, tell her she looks familair, share random thoughts and feelings, seem interesting You gota play everything cool, dont think about it to much, just conversate. (if that makes sense) "We should smoke a blunt a sometime" works for me. (then kick em the ol' game while in person) Online chattin with girls was always easier for me, than in person, because u have time to react and think, behind a computer. In person, just an akward look can turn a girl off, or even just a few misunderstood words. **Remember** - To a girl that doesnt know you, you can be whoever you want. Also, girls believe just about everything. Your good to go.
I was gonna post this same exact thread actually. Problem with me though is, I'll meet a girl at a party/club/whatever, have a fucking amazing conversation with her that night, drunk or sober, then when I go to talk to her on facebook or texting its like bleh and we end up never talking again.
Sounds like a good ol case of intoxication to me man, I don't think there is anything up with that one Tower haha. You are obviously more turned on and into the girls when intoxicated, and then when you sober up you lose interest. That is just the way of life sometimes lol
harsh man i don't know what to advise you though Mucha. a friend of mine was actually going through a similar issue of talking to someone via text and stuff. Is there a chance you'll ever run into her randomly and you could strike up a legit conversation with her?
its true.... i have better conversations with guys when I am drunk rather than the next day sober, but only if I am not interested in them.
I'm afraid I can offer no advice on internet flirting, for I have never participated in such things:tongue:
like this " hey, whats up? i got tickets to >insert comedy show/ concert/ other event here< you wanna go?" follow up with "what other comedians/ musicians/ etc are you into? and if im wrong, straighten me out, but im assuming you are bi/ lesbian, and therefore not a dude. if that is the case, have you the foreknowledge of her orientation to make a move, or are you winging it?
well first of all, when striking up a conversatin with her dont start out trying to be sexual and mr macho man because unless shes a slut it aint going to work try it on a stripper!....get to know her for her ask her bout her favorite music, where she group up yada yada.....if she's into you even a little bit she will ask u questions back. mayb set up a casual nice date.....well that should help you to start out for now and let it lead on from there i hope that helped... good luck