How to finger her ass and make her orgasm

So for a very long time since a I was a young teen I have been obsessed with anal sex, probably from having the internet at a young age. I’ve tried it with my girlfriend and it was not good for her at all. I think I lacked patience and I’ve been researching non stop to try to do it better so it would make her feel good and so she will enjoy it.

I’ve watched some porn lately and there’s definitely some girls that seem to not be acting and really enjoy anal sex. One girl was squirting like crazy and the guy was licking her pussy and clit, almost seemed like he was blowing on her clit too or something all while fingering her ass, almost up and down rather than in and out, she looked very relaxed but this made her squirt and everything.

I’ve also watched some porn where dudes had the tip or a little more than just the tip of their dick in a girls ass and they like jiggle their dick up and down and the girls squirt etc.

anyways, since I’m obsessed with this, I’d like to know the best way to make my GF cum and feel good from anal.

I know tons of lube and patience and taking it slow and from this point on I’m certainly going to do it that way, but the main reason of this thread is more regarding if there’s a certain spot that needs to be hit, how deep or shallow the spot is etc. are all the good feelings mainly right at the entrance etc. I’d also like to eat her ass real good too to make her feel good.

Thank you

 

Don’t ask us. Ask your girlfriend.

 

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The question is more for the people that have the experience and first hand enjoy it and know how to do it properly. I by no means was claiming because watching it in a porn that that’s how it needs to be done. But the one porn I did watch I believe was with a Alisha Klass who is a porn star but I do believe she actually really enjoys anal sex as some of the females on this forum, I’m just trying to ask the experienced people.

thank you

 

This is the best answer I’ve read on this page in a while! 100% true, factual, and medically proven! The reason why those women are called porn actresses is because they are porn actresses. It’s acting! They get paid to make it look good. They get paid a lot to make it look great. But it’s still just acting.

 

One time, with my wife lying on her back, I slid 3 fingers in her ass. After a while of fingering her ass, I pushed my fingertips firmly upward. Same motion as rubbing the g-spot in the vagina. Well, she started moaning and gave me a "oh my gawd what are you doing!". So I kept at it and shortly thereafter she had a g-spot orgasm from my fingers in her ass.

So it wasn't a true ass-gasm per se, but she did have an orgasm nonetheless. Hasn't happened since, but then she's not a big fan of fingers in her ass usually. Mostly just my dick.

 

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Thanks for the replies, I was expecting more girls to comment as I searched through soo many threads, and posts and found a lot of girls saying they enjoy it and it’s the best sex, yet no one really posted here it seems.

my goal is to make my girlfriend feel good from it, I know it’s not for everyone, but wanted the females input also male input, basically the people who have the experience and love it.

 

I love anal and cum quite easily from it. i think the 2 things that bring on my orgasm are feeling full, so when I am being fisted or multiple cocks. The other thing is feeling really turned on. From my experience, there isn't a magic spot but we are all different. If I am with a man on his own, I would say the whole experience is more important than hitting a particular mark. Really think about what gets her going overall and the anal would then only be a part of that.

 

I think anal is more of an enhancement to the climax for her, not what makes her cum. Kelly is my FWB. She sucks me off first every time we meet. Then I get to work on her. USUALLY, she'll put a toy in her ass before I go down on her and it stays there the whole time as she gets more and more aroused and finally cums. But if she doesn't put one back there, I play with her ass the entire time I'm licking and fingering her pussy and clit. As she starts to cum, her hips rise up a little at a time and each time they rise, I put my middle finger right on her asshole and press. She goes up...I go up...she goes up...I go up. She knows that as she begins her big climax that she'll go down as she cums and she also knows that means my finger will slide into her bum. It happens every time and the pressing feeling is what she likes and the knowledge that her climax will result in a long, thick finger sliding into her ass. And that feeling enhances the climax too. She would climax without anything back there but it's all part of a great experience.

 

If you can keep that clit stimulated while taking care of the ass , whether by tongue, finger, or vibrator then half the battle is won. Expecting her to cum from ass-play alone is optimistic at best.. The combination of both however...

 

Update:

so lately she has been letting me lick her ass while I finger her pussy/gspot

she hasn’t liked anal really ever, more so hates it, but she let me put a finger in her ass.

So with her laying on her back I generally lick her clit and finger her gspot.

Well this time around I fingered her ass hole with one hand and the other hand I fingered her pussy/g-spot. All while licking her clit.

I took it very easy on her ass, and aimed the Butt finger up towards her pussy almost like I was trying to help push my finger in her pussy onto her g spot harder. This is all with her laying on her back and feet in the air.

eventually she loosened up and it felt good and I was really giving it to her, like pretty rough, it was a full body workout for me lol. Literally my arms were getting tired but I could tell she liked it so I didn’t want to ruin her possible orgasm. She finally came hard from it.

she came very good from it, she said she almost squirted and it felt good.

so hopefully I can keep at it and finally make anal good for her so I can eventually fuck her in the ass in a way that she can enjoy it as well.

 

This is more of a once-in-awhile treat than an everyday thing. But sometimes if my wife is super-aroused, I lick her ass for an extended period while fingering her pussy till she comes.
One very intense memory: I had a couple of fingers in her pussy, my tongue up her asshole. I said "tell me you love me licking your ass!" She is normally shy about talking dirty, but she exclaimed "I love you licking my ass!" and immediately came hard.

 

My gf loves her bumhole massaged whilst I am inside her laying on our side.after a short while her bumhole relaxes and I slip my thumb in with the help of some lube,I love this and gets me so hard and it seems to really enhance her orgasms

 

I tried to finger her ass again and failed at knowing what to do down there. I also smoked a little weed so it might have made it hard to focus on aiming my finger properly.

hopefully I can try again soon and figure it out.

I see tons of videos of girls orgasming and squirting from anal, a lot are amatures on pornhub but I’d love to figure this out in hopes slowly I can fuck my girl in the ass in a way she will enjoy.

 

My gf (when she was my gf) and I were watching a movie [regular movie, not porn] and I slipped my finger in her ass. Nothing crazy, just small movements. I was in there for about 30’min. Then she says “I feel like I’m going to cum. Take your finger out, it’s not right to cum from my asshole.” I’ve tried ever since then to make her cum like that but it’s been a total no go. That was 22 years ago.