How to find out if wife wants to sleep with someone else

What's the best way to find out if wife would be willing to sleep with someone else, and how would we pick someone?

 

I asked her. She had sex with others before we married, so after we had been married a while, I asked if she missed the variety. She was being hit on by sales reps who called on her office, as well as others, so finding prospective partners was no problem.

 

So what did she say?

 

She said she would think about it. A few weeks later, she went to a medical convention in another city and arranged to meet the sales rep there. They had sex. She would only have one night events, no repeats, but she did have sex with a couple of other guys and then decided not to do it again. That was over a two year period.

 

Ask your self, Is this something that you want her to do, is it for your entertainment, watching her with another man,
Are you looking for a 3-some or open relationship so that you can feel free to have sex with others etc.

Communication is always the most important, think about what her reaction will be. Be prepared for what you wish for.
Your wishes becoming a reality, are you prepared for what will happen next, we have all read and hear how great open relationships are 3-some etc.

Along with the great stories there are more horror story’s that are rarely ever talked about.

 

^^^^^ truth

 

I just ask “would you sleep with him?”. No fun to beat around the bush

 

I brought up the idea of adding another guy several times over several years and she never even responded to me . At some point a few years later she made some kind of connection with a friend of ours and she initiated it . It was a perfect arrangement as his wife also participated . My wife being a Scorpio I never would have expected she'd be ok with seeing me with another woman even if they were good friends .

 

I hope she gave you all the details when she returned home.

How did it make you feel?

We really enjoyed our MFMs and I hated it when she said NO MORE. Her choice I guess

 

Part of the deal was that she would tell me all about it. I enjoyed hearing the story while we had sex.

 

I loved the details.....they had me cuming again and again.

 

Same here. I enjoy those times when she remembers some detail she forgot to tell me about her sexual activities in college.

 

My wife is like this, she will ask me for details from past experiences sometimes while she is working, “sexting” always leads to a great encounter as soon as she gets home from work,

 

My wife never wanted to hear about my past exploits. VERY jealous, even if the stories were with ex's. Fortunately I eventually got her to open up about her past f*cks, and was able to share her in our MFMs. Those were freakin HOT!

 

'just go to the door naked' Talk about clear communication, I love it.

How to find out if your wife wants to sleep with some one?
Ask her, talk to her, if you are too shy or uncomfortable with that then your relationship isn't ready for this kind of playing.

Just my opinion

 

inquiring minds want to know, how did things turn out ?

 

Honey. What guy do u want to bang ?

 

Just asked the wife if she would sleep with someone else and she said she'll think about it?

 

We asked each other many times "Would you like to take so and so to bed?" The question was put out there and a lot of the times the answer was yes or maybe. But we were so hot for each other we ended up with it as a role play fantasy. It was quite an erotic turn on to hear her say someone else's name while in the throes of passion. I would fall into the impromptu role and give her the fantasy. She did the same for me.