How To Discreetly Hook Up With Another Married Guy

I think you are right to have apprehension about your safety. Always listen to that voice.

 

Thanks for the encouragement I really appreciate you.

 

there are some nuts out there, no doubt. I always chat with them for a while before meeting. So far I’ve been able to flush them out. And even at that it hasn’t been a lot. I think. Most guys just want to get off.

 

That's what I would like, but I don't need any drama to go with it. In this part of the country it's a bit difficult to do that and not rock the boat with drama.

 

You most definitely need to be cautious, but most mature married guys just want the same thing - a friend with benefits. No drama needed. Take the time to become friends - you both know what you want, and eventually will get there if the connection is right.

 

Yes I do,

 

Being a married man I’d rather meet another married man. The issue then becomes a place to play. So it’s usually older retired guys.

 

My fears and concerns as well. Someone may seem safe but could turn on you when you’re alone with them.

 

I’ve been on Adam4adam but for me it’s hard to find someone who can host.

 

I have had a few conversations, but everybody flakes out. It’s fun to look at pics but that’s it. A lot of crack pots.

 

Agreed

 

A couple of weeks ago I was talking to one of my neighbors. He’s a single parent about my age. After about 30 min of chatting I just up and asked him if he would be interested in a blowjob. He said thank you but he didn’t swing that way. I explained that I wasn’t gay (I’m married) but liked to suck cock and didn’t want any recip. He said he would think about it and he might take me up on it. Yesterday morning he texted me asking me to come up for a few min. I got there, he let me in then dropped his boxers and told me to suck his cock. He lasted about 5 min before he unloaded big time in my mouth. Me thinks me gonna have a regular cock now!

 

Send me a message, would like to chat

 

Nice! Hope that becomes a regular thing for you. Every guy needs blow jobs, and who better to give him one than other guy!

 

Even though I'm fooling around with a gay friend from work (who's awesome btw), I wouldn't mind expending my circle and find another married guy that needs sucking and return the favor. It's finding the other guy that presents a certain challenge.

 

I can't tell you how many times I returned home to my first wife after sucking a guy off and swallowing his load to have great sex with her. Several times I returned home after swallowing several loads of cum from a couple different guys. It's amazing that she never took notice to my cum breath, I could still taste it and smell it but apparently she didn't.

 

Had an experience in the steam room this morning with an older gentlemen. I’ve been in there before with him but never struck up a conversation. He didn’t seem to be the cruising type but he usually hangs around in either the sauna or steam room.

anyway, saw him glancing my way so I opened my legs up a bit. Of course I’m wearing compression shorts so it’s not revealing by far. Glanced again and saw he was touching his cock.

after a few minutes I introduce myself and he comes over by me. Asked if he was married and he was. I am too so we just started chatting. Since he was touching himself I said he could show it he wanted, so he stood up and pulled it out. Not a long dick but certainly looked thick. While I wanted to touch it I never do anything in a public place besides show. I went to the shower and he followed me so we washed ourselves in opposite corners of the shower.

I asked if he had a place and he didnt, so I don’t see anything further happening. But it’s good to know my intuition was correct.