How to control gag reflex?

Of course guys like to be deep throated. I do my best but can never finish it because once my gag reflex is triggered 6-7 times it literally takes nothing and then I’m barfing every time it’s even in my mouth. I’ve tried numbing sprays but I need to do that every so often and it interrupts the flow. Any tips?

 

Practice, practice, practice. I think the whole deep throating thing is more of a visual turn on for me. Yeah, it's fun and a bit rough and dominant, but I think there's more actual stimulation from your tongue action and sucking movement on the head. It really is something to cum deep throat though, so why don't you save that for when he's just about ready to blow? Not everybody is a porn star, what makes the blowjob is enthusiasm.

 

It doesn't have to be!!! My wife can take ALL of me - but she just takes her time. She starts licking me up & down, then taking in more of me a little at a time. This process may take 15 to 20 minutes. She gets more adjusted to having more of me in her mouth at her own pace. She'll vary her up & down strokes, the amount of suction, swirling her tongue on the underside of my cock. But when she gets to the point where she's comfortable, she takes her time and SLOWLY deepthroats me up & down while swirling her tongue on the underside of it. No "woodpecker" neck-breaking motions for her. It's more sensuous that way for me - and it's much easier for her - no neck pain and she ENJOYS herself while deepthroating me. She gets REALLY WET and cranked up while doing it !! She said it makes her much hornier!! She really doesn't enjoy sex unless she spends around 45 minutes sucking and deepthroating me first.

I love to take my time too - and lick her ENTIRE lady-zone, front to back bud and ALL AROUND down there for at least an hour. I mix in various vibrators to a add variety of sensations for her. We usually 69 and get off that way first, then continue on with P- in -V sex if she wants it.

My advice: take your time, go slow, practice a LOT, don't be rough & "rammy" with his cock. Too easy to gag that way, and end up with a sore neck. Maybe pour some of your favorite chocolate syrup on him and really ENJOY your very own treat!!! Trick yourself into taking more & more of him as you savor your chocolate taste. Add more syrup as needed!!! Have fun & ENJOY !!! No rush.

 

This too !!! Twogigahz nailed this. Show him you're having fun and WANT to be doing this for him. Enthusiasm will more than make up for not swallowing the last inch of his cock!!!

 

Wow, she's EXACTLY like my wife. Slow and steady, and definitely not into it as much unless she gets her greedy cock cravings satisfied first. Same with us, much more into it when we get our pussy cravings satisfied first (if that's possible) lol. Foreplay and oral is our favorite part of sex. But good rough intercourse is a VERY close second.

 

^^^^^^ Gotta love that !!! Nothing like a slow, balls-deep BJ ……………….. by a lady who just LOVES DOING IT !!!

 

Deep throating (IMO) is a practiced skill wanting to be performed by the giver. Not everyone can perfect it and doesn't mean you can't orally pleasure him without doing so. My first wife at certain times, after a relaxing 30 minutes full body message could deep throat my 8" but couldn't do so if she just dropped to her knees to blow me. Relaxation seems to be a key element in perfecting it. It took me giving many blowjobs before I was able to do so and taking my time and going further and further down on his cock each time helps. Then when you've worked up that thick saliva from deep in your throat use it to help get him all the way in. For me when I'm close to taking him all down I stretch my mouth open, take a quick breath inward (opens my throat) and go for it as my nose presses against his tummy then I'm able to use my throat muscles to suck his cock and it's the perfect way for him to finish as his cum shoots right down your throat.

 

Now I have a dull, aching pain below my belly button. Can headaches sink???? And something's peaking out above my belt.

Funfungirl - can you explain what's happening???

 

You bad girls are just sooo much fun!!!

 

I have no complaints about getting a "standard" blowjob versus a deep throat blowjob. 90% of the pleasure comes from the top half of my dick.

 

I have no gag reflex at all. Hubby just loves having his 9ins devoured.

 

Just like being good at Tennis, it apparently takes a LOT of practice. And both are fun to practice so win win!

 

GOALS!! I am so close to matching her lol

 

Wow! She's good. Maybe some day I'll get there.

 

I don't have a gag-reflex, but I've figured out advice to give people.

1. Practice with objects that are thin, and flexible, and won't break
2. Swallow to trick your brain into thinking you're eating and not choking
3. Squeeze your left thumb reduces people's gag reflex in many cases

 

I'm actually gonna print this out so I can refer to it the next time I have the opportunity! All of the above makes sense!

 

Angela, maybe you can tape it on the headboard......practice, practice, practice...

 

I like that idea, too. It will leave no doubt in my guest's mind what I am really wanting to get out of sex.

 

Oh, I'm sure you'll easily get what you're looking for...

 

I don’t mind being your practice subject. You can practice on me till you get it right and then some!