How To Approach The Threesome And Swinger Topic With My Husband

I find myself thinking a lot about doing a threesome and couple playing with my husband but I'm very nervous about it. I want to spend the rest of my life with this man so I don't want to do anything that could potentially ruin our relationship. How do I know if this will ruin it? We talk about threesomes and couple playing a lot during sex him more then me really but I have said some things in the past that were pretty far out there. This is really starting to bother me because I am getting very very interested in it but not sure how to bring it up to him as an I want to do this with you instead of just talk to spice up the moment kind of thing. I want it all women on women men on me watching men on another women but I want it only with him. Everything sexual I do for the rest of my life I want him right in the middle of it. I'm very much in love with this man and we have been together over 28 years. We have built a family and a life together and the very last thing I want to do is anything that would destroy that. So help me understand...can a married couple who have been together this long survive sharing their sex life?

 

i'd love to have an MMF with my wife - I'm in the same boat

 

As a women that has been involved in an open marriage for a long time, I think most men would jump at the opportunity to engage in a swingers scene or a 3some. When I met my husband that was part of our deal at least to keep the sexual journey alive and well by keeping our sexual exploits open in our relationship. It has worked great as we enjoy our friends both in and out of the bedroom. Just be honest with him and let him know that sex is just that sex!! Assure him it would not change anything.