how the hell does it fit?

anyway, yeah, lube would be your best bet, and maybe pain killers for the first time.

 

I am definitley not a virgin I have had sex. Is there any lube that won't irritate and won't feel cold or unnatural?

 

spit

 

eeewww, spit is so gross, but i dunno, go to love works and check out their inventory. but whats wrong with lubricated condoms? lifestyles are good

 

How about butter, good ole butter

 

mmm... that'd make good eatin'

 

I hate condoms and I hate lube and I am too self concious to have anyones mouth down there. errr sorry I am not much help

 

I personally introduced 2 virgins into womanhood and can assure you that you will be fine with whatever size your man has. Do not worry you will love it.

 

What?! You won't let your man pleasure you orally?! I used to feel the same way, but once I relaxed and let down my inhibitions, it was fantastic! I'll never forget the first time my hubby did that. We were dating at the time and we still hadn't had actual sexual intercourse. He just went down there and I pushed him away, telling him I felt "weird" about him doing that. He persisted, until I finally gave in, and boy, was I ever glad I did.

Really, you should let your guy do that for you.

Peace, love, and happiness...

 

dammit I've had sex many times before just with one person. I am 23 years old obviously I have had sex

 

nah I really don't think I ever could. I had it done when I was eally young-like 15 and loved it and than had it done when I was 18 and was so uncomftrable that I don't think I could ever do it again-it would be too hard.

 

tequilia or whiskey will help with that

 

The first do is exactly that. DO!

 

lol

 

really I just can't believe guys like that I thought about going down on this one chick when I was like 17 and when I thought about all that it entailed I was kinda grossed out and she was freaking hot and I still couldn't do it.

 

This is new information, you said nothing about going down on another girl. I thought you meant having a guy go south on you.

 

I was talking about having a guy go south on me as I am completley straight. I was just saying that if I couldn't do it to a girl how could guys do it to a girl?

 

Lets just say when your down there coming up for air is not a priority.

 

no I think it will just be one of those things I won't let anyone do to me.