How should I tell my gf...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Bond007, Aug 14, 2013.

  1. Bond007

    Bond007 Member

    ...I'm not into blow jobs? I mean, I'm sure all of you on here are surprised to hear a thread like this, but in all honesty, I'm not into blowjobs. It kind of grosses me out. We've tried it several times and she kept sucking me and making me feel hella good but I just couldn't cum. I tried to relax and just let it happen but nothing happened. I'm not sure what that's about. I cum perfectly when we do it ass/pussy but for some reason when she goes down on me I can't seem to cum. So, she got to the point where she was thinking, "Maybe you're not that into me." In which case I was like, "Um, what?" But yeah, I was never really one for blowjobs and I have yet to tell her that.
  2. AceK

    AceK Scientia Potentia Est

    You know how lucky you are that she is willing to suck your dick as long as it takes to come...

    It could be where she teases you until ur about to come then wants you to fuck her but you dont last long cause you were already about to come then you gotta eat her out till she gets off ;)
  3. Bond007

    Bond007 Member

    True that. True that. :2thumbsup:
  4. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

    I don't think you should tell her. Just relax and enjoy it, don't think about it."]Frankie Goes To Hollywood - Relax (Music Video 1984) - YouTube
  5. sunshine186

    sunshine186 midnight toker

    I'd tell her. I don't get anything out of oral either so now my guy doesn't have to try.
    if you don't like it, I'm sure she'd much rather not sucking dick if she doesn't have to.
  6. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

    but he said it felt good so it seems like he's just putting too much thought into it and becoming tense..

    Bond, what exactly grosses you out?
    when I really think about the nitty gritty of sex, it grosses me out too, but I love sex..
  7. Bond007

    Bond007 Member

    It grosses me out when girls have cum on their mouth/face. I just don't get turned on by it. But I mean it did feel good so at the same time maybe that would change; but nothing happened. You're right though RainyDayHype, then I started to tense and over-think it. I guess if we do try it again and nothing happens, then I'll just tell her. If she doesn't like it, or changes her mind about our relationship, then oh well. Thanks for the video!!! Hahah!!!
  8. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

    let her suck you for a little bit, then pull her close and tell her to get on top of you..

    that is if you're turned on and erect..I guess you couldn't do that if you're limp
  9. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    Do it for her. Maybe she just loves it. Close your peepers and think of something else.
  10. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    Ok, so the fluids bug you, fair enough.

    What about oral not to completion, just as play?

    And yes, you should chat with her and explain that it's never done much for you and that you far prefer XYZ.
  11. celebrating

    celebrating Member

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  13. Honeybuns

    Honeybuns Member

    I think oral as foreplay would be a good idea for you as drumminmama said. Things may change in time for you for sure. She might really enjoy doing it like scratcho said! I know i do and i think id be okay if my man just wanted to do it as foreplay.
  14. celebrating

    celebrating Member

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