How severe do you like it?

Not bad for me..

 

Waiting to find out...

 

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Do you require medical attention? If the boo-boo requires kissing, I have industrial size lip balm. I'll be gentle.

 

I expect several (4-6) good size bruises that have me sitting painfully for a couple days.

 

A good solid slap that stings is the best in the seconds before the orgasim.

 

I don't want broken skin, but a bruising bottom and sobbing is severe enough for me.

 

For play... I'm not a hard player really. It drove my first boyfriend mad. Because almost nothing was hard enough for punishment. With him it was always dark bruises all over my butt, backs of thighs and for lies, inner thighs from paddles, bath brushes, etc. for punishment. But for fun I couldn't enjoy hard play which he wanted. He wasn't crazy about discipline period. Didn't really tell me until the end but felt women shouldn't get it. But he loved hard play. It just reminded me too much of punishment and my resistance was way down during those kinds of sessions. Punishment put me in different head space. Has been that way ever since with anybody. Everyone respected it but my friend's (and only switch relationship ever) fiance turned husband. He was an ass. Controlling, dangerous (nearly bit her nipple OFF as in it was dangling and then wouldn't spend the money for the medicine that would not just heal it but let it maybe lactate in the future in case that was a need down the road...) He would do things to ME I was far from ok with. I regret not kicking him out of the house the one time with threats of police if he didn't stop. But I was too weak at the time.

So yeah. I can take a LOT for discipline... Cane welts that break skin... Paddlings that leave horrible bruises. Only once did I get blisters at my own request (I was in a very dangerous position with not getting things out online and someone convinced me to share questionable photos of myself... Id been warned by a sexual and domestic assault location in my hometown never to do that because of someone out to get me... Several mental health care professionals had as well. And I didn't listen. When it finally sunk in I crumbled and wanted the worst punishment possible which I saw ws blisters. My current disciplinarian was fully safe... My 2nd dad. He didn't want to but agreed as long as he didn't break them open. Only got a few blood blisters each side but soooo much worse than one of his canings. From the first swat I was howling and levitating off his lap until he finally pinned my legs (Something that terrifies me). Up until very recently I've had no desire for something like that again.

 

I'm into bdsm, and I'm a dominatrix... I love spanking, and my ex-wife was into that... But I guess I'm really more into using a crop or a flogger. I love welts and bruises, and I only dish out what I would be able to accept myself.

 

i can take a pretty hard spanking with about any inplement but need to stop at blood just not for me

 

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