How Old Will One Be When They No Longer Are Able To Enjoy Sex?

If your with the right partner ,your appetite need never change.

What is likely to change is when your in your 50s there will be far foreplay and less penetrative sex . I can only manage one shot and then I am spent for the night . We do quite a lot of BDSM but none of the hardcore stuff but Role playing is really fun and can start outside the bedroom . So just thinking outside the box a little can enrich your sex life to go well past your 50s even .

 

64 and still Love the Feeling! ❤❤❤

 

I'm 60. My wife went through the change and has no interest in sex.......its been 4+ years. I've lost interest. Just don't care any longer. I haven't even masturbated in over a month. Sad existence.

 

I guess I can consider myself lucky .
We are just starting out again after the change . So we are treating it as an adventure . We had a similar restart in our 40s .

 

Such happens all too frequently. And is probably the predominant response.

 

Seems like depression to me. But then again, who isn't depressed today? They should put Wellbutrin in the water supply. Everyone will be happy and horny.

 

At 53, I'm a ways off from 80. However, it wasn't that long ago (5-10 years ago) that I could not imagine not wanting sex at any given second. I could not fathom the idea of having no interest, or having a wiener that wouldn't get hard as a rock in two seconds. Stress, lack of sleep, etc had zero affect on my wiener. Then, something happened. It happened sorta of gradually but it seemed to happen overnight at the same time. Seems my body's ability to effectively cope with stress and poor sleep finally reached its threshold. The wiener lost a slight bit of hardness. Then came ejaculation. I don't explode like I used to. And I noticed that rather than thinking about sex 24/7, I only thought about it 23/6.

Honestly, that latter part has been a big relief! At the same time, it makes me wonder what's next. And when! Can the better management of stress reverse things? I can't imagine losing interest in sex. But then again, I couldn't have imagined where I'm at now, with a dilly whacker that is only 95% as hard as it once was. I hope I can still rock a boner at 80, or beyond. On the other hand, I may not even care at that point. And I'm not sure that's a bad thing. I hope to live that long to find out!

 

Dead

 

At 53 we were still rockin! Yes the frequency was less, but when we did it was always great. Then suddenly that switch went off in her body/mind and now nothing. We had an "adventurous" sex life for 15 years. Then the change effected her body, and her mind. The brain is the best sex organ, and although our bodies change the brain can make up for that.

As mentioned, stress and lack of sleep has killed my desires to even masturbate. Waking up at 3am every day (not to the alarm) and my mind kicks in as to what I need to do today. Even if I wake up with morning wood it quickly goes away.........what's the point?

 

When I'm 6 feet under.

 

Sad to hear , my ex who is 74 went through menopause over 20 years ago has only one ovary but is still able to achieve orgasm , I only see her once a year now but a few months ago I saw her and she got horny when we got naked and her clitoris was hard as a rock so I liked it and she had a small orgasm and was so horny she sat on my face and I sucked her erect hard clit to 8 more orgasms in a few minutes

 

I am 73 & wife 63, we both enjoy sex

 

I will enjoy it right up till the doctor looks at his watch and says "Time of death, 4:15pm, if we hurry we can beat the traffic now"

 

Also she masturbates occasionally and brings herself to orgasm as she did the second day I was with her and when she reaches orgasm her nipples and areola get all wrinkled up tight and breast tissue around her areola also , I think more women her age could be like that

 

"...when she reaches orgasm her nipples and areola get...."

By the way, that's been know for 40 yrs by sexologists. A sure sign of female orgasm. With all the talk about women 'faking it', .....no stiff nips, no real org.

 

We're in our mid 50's and have sex 3-5 times a week.

 

Health issues my cause one to need to alter the amount of sex they enjoy... But you can altar how you enjoy it

 

I just talked to my ex on the phone yesterday and she said she was laying in bed a week or so ago thinking about me sucking her clit and masturbated and said she screamed when she came it was so intense and she’s 74 years old

 

I’m 71 and my Wife 68, we have good sex about every other day which is consistently more than when we were younger. It takes a little more preparation these days and i have to have the help of viagra. How long it may continue I have no idea but presently it’s great!

 

I’ll be 70 in six days but since I don’t have a female partner I masturbate two or three times a week with help from viagra and porn on my iPad, six years ago when I started seeing my current lady doctor she had my testosterone tested and I started injecting testosterone once a week and I told her that the testosterone made me feel horny and sometimes my testicles hurt a little so she gave me a prescription for viagra and told me that regular ejaculations will help my prostate and keep my testicles from hurting and if I find a partner that I can have intercourse so I try to ejaculate two or three times a week