my older sister once commented about how everyone grows out of their 'ugly duckling' stage.(i guess she was referring to my tom-boy dressing, can't dance, mouth full of braces look) and my brother, who was 25 said to me 'hey man, think i'll ever grow out of that stage?' my brothers one of the coolest people i know, even though he was you classic chess club geek in high school. as for me, even though i now dress differently,and dont have braces (still can't dance), i still dont fit in with anyone and dont think i ever will. so unless loner is cool, i'm never turning cool
oh boy, i really cant remember. its quite possible that i was always cool. but now i just sound like an ass.
I must say something here.. Ok about the coolness.. everything is based on relative theory.. like as I told before, people see and admire different things and this is why you can't say that aww, I'm so cool.. (well in case of ego grip you can, indeed, i know it from my own experiences.. ) anyway I can give you and example.. My sister has "cool friends" (she is teenager).. and anyway she thinks they are cool, but as much as I can see they suck totally.. like they are really pissing me off, because of their behaviour.. it seems to me that they even don't respect themselves.. So here is my point.. You can't say pal is cool or pal is an uncool person
The first time anyone told me i was cool was just after i turned 17. So ive been 'cool' for nearly a year now...apparently!
Although my son and his friends callme cool, I truly attained it last night when I left the fan on all night...by accident...55 degree air pulling into a 10x10 room...man, I am refrigerated!