How often do you guys have sex?

not too often unfortunately

 

Daily at the moment 2 or 3 times, as to who initiates it its 50/50

 

lol-this douche bag is just using you for sex-----if you dont have sex with him he will dump you

 

I'm back at work so it's gonna be a few months

 

1. 2-3 times per week now. we've been dating about a year. we used to have sex about 7 times per week
2. it's about 50-50 for us
3. we both feel unattractive when only 1 of us is doing the initiating

 

now i thort tht but wen ive sed it tooo him he says his nt just usin me for sex as he says if he was then he wud have left me by now nd luked for a tart tht would doo it all the time :S

 

Young guys will want it at nearly every opportunity. Don't let that scare you. I think what he's fishing for is the assurance that he's pleasing you. If you initiate it once a week, and let him know when he initiates that it was fun/great/wow, then he should be happy with how things are. I think most guys have a bigger appetite for sex than girls do and people tend to show love the way that they most appreciate love. If he's all about physical contact then he feels the most loved when you give him what he likes the most.

Try being cozy with him more often. If he's like me then holding his hand, hugging him, kissing his cheek, or any other sort of physical contact lets him know he's loved just as well as sex does. It's about physical contact. While sex is the most intimate, it's not the only quality contact you can give out.

 

Usually 2-3 times a week, sometimes less, sometimes more, it just depends! Lots of variables can come into play. For the record, my husband and I have been together for over 13 years, married for 10 of those years, and we have three young children.

I would say that we both initiate equally for the most part. Maybe he does a tad more, but really, I don't keep track of all that, I just kind of go with the flow. When the mood strikes, I let him know, and visa versa.

 

Hmm, how often is probably not a good question for me....more like how long has it been.

Probably over 2 years now. I didn't vow to be celibate or anything, just have yet to meet another girl that I can connect with that deep on a mental level to want to enact it out on the physical.

 

1)How often do you couples have sex? 3 to 4 times a week
2)Do the males in your relationships always initiate sexual contact? no its a 50/50 thing
3)If they don't, can they please explain how frustrating they would feel if they did? if they always have to intiate sex it will kind of get frustrating because they always have to be the ones to sorta beg for it if they have to beg for it so much they will ither stop asking for it or go find it somewhere else where they dont have to beg for it constantly
but if u simply don want to have sex just say no and give ur reason
never have sex just because they want to

 

I have sex 2-3 times a week and it's just not enough!!! I initiate it 90% of the time, but my girl is always good to go