How Often Do Straight Guys Have Gay Sex?

Sure, except...I don't consider rape to be an "exception". I mean, rape is a forcible act. So, obviously...being raped would in no way be indicative of one's sexual preferences.

I suppose I can understand someone being in denial about their sexual desires. Not as much in this day, as 30, 50, 100 or more years ago. But, I guess anyone might have some trepidation about admitting to themselves that their sexual orientation is something other than what they've been conditioned to accept as "normal". Why they would then go on a public forum and admit to engaging in those same activities, I do *not* understand...except for the anonymity they enjoy.

People be crazy.

 

well, that's my point. it still fits the definition of having sex, but it has nothing to do with sexual preference.

yeah i don't understand all the denial. if you like guys, you like guys. who cares? but hipforums is full of denial. at least it used to be, i haven't personally noticed as much of it since the sex forums stopped showing up under "new posts."

 

I’m not one to get hung up the labels. But being a married guy that primarily likes women I do enjoy and occasional cock. maybe a few times a year. Gay, bi? I don’t know, I just like it.

 

Maybe I'm getting too bogged down in semantics here. It seems we're generally in agreement, and I'm not just trying to be argumentative. But...I don't feel that rape fits the definition of having sex. It *may* fit that definition for the rapist, but I wholeheartedly doubt that it does for the victim.

As has been stated many times, in the preponderance of cases, rape seldom has anything to do with the sexual act. It's more about violence, control, domination, etc. So, I don't see anything being gained by bringing instances of rape into a discussion of sexual preferences.

 

When I have gay sex, I'm still totally straight.

 

damn. i wish it worked that way with straight sex.

 

unfortunately, i'm not a fan. i also wouldn't be a good politician or fundraiser. i can bullshit enough to get by, but i feel icky doing it. i'd rather just be myself, which is hated by women, voters, and donors.

 

Then you aren’t straight get

 

I’m a married guy but still lik sex with men too! I’m definitely bisexual... can’t get enough of either one.. but never see myself in a relationship with a man...

 

That got me so hard dude, knowing real straight guys like us, love cock so much!

 

Just think what life would be like if males spent even a fraction of the time they waste agonizing over their sexual preferences and what that means about their masculinity and and self image and worried instead about whether or not they're being an asshole?

 

Im with you, I spend far more energy trying to treat people with dignity and respect than worrying about why I consider myself straight or bi.
99% of the people I encounter on a daily basis see me as a masculine straight man. And since it a very small minority that will have their cock in my mouth that makes sense. That can and does influence how I view myself.

 

From my experience far more likely in early teens. Straight friends enjoyed messing around. All straight or gay had a level of participation they were willing to engage in and was NOT based on their sexuality at all! In high school was a significant drop in their wanting to do things and again in collage and after collage most were no longer willing. I think its a combination of hormones and figuring out or a better word would be reissuing their feelings. EVERYONE enjoys sexual stimulation regardless of where it comes from. And I hope all take the opportunity to explore their feelings.

 

Not often enough. I’m a married guy and all I think about is the next cock to suck. I’m hoping to get fucked one of these days.

 

Maybe this is semantics. I understand there is a fluidity or a spectrum to human sexuality and I do believe gender is a social construct. But it does seem to me that gay, straight, bi, pan, etc have generally understood and accepted meanings. If you’re a man regularly choosing to have sex with men, can that still fit within the generally understood colloquial definition of straight? If so what does straight mean? Maybe I just don’t understand the terms, and if that’s the case I want to know so I start using them correctly

 

I like pussy but I also like cock. I don’t care what the label is