How Often Do Straight Guys Have Gay Sex?

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  1. Lovnflman

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    Interesting question.
    Back in my youth when girls weren't interested, I had a regular suck buddy for a couple of years. I didn't consider myself gay, and hadn't even heard the term bisexual. We'd sit around looking at Playboy or Penthouse, get horned up and suck each other off. Other times we just needed each other's mouths. We eventually got girlfriends, but they weren't keen on giving head, so he and I would hook up.
    Years later I have a long term live in GF. She had been around and taught me so much about sex. She was insatiable and at one point I suggested having MFMs While role playing she'd get off big time, but afterwards she said she wasn't interested.
    Not sure where I found the book, but it centered around a bisexual married guy, and it got me thinking. Well, she found the book and was totally pissed off, accusing me of being gay. How she could say that with the incredible sex we were having was beyond me. She had a bi female friend at work that she started hanging out with outside of work. Cute gal. Out of the blue one night my gf told me her friend would be up for a FMF with us! COOL! Well, it fucking never happened, but the two of them were going out more and more often, and some nights she wouldn't get home u til the wee hours. She eventually moved out, and in with her friend. I'd see her on occasions and her transformation was obvious. All this after I had paid for her boob job that she wanted (I liked her small breasts). Anyway, they were together for a few years, and now she's married to an older sugar daddy.
    I guess my point is why is it ok for a woman to be bi, but not her partner? My current wife of 20+ years knew about my mm past. Initially shocked, but eventually turned on by it. We watched MMF and gay porn and it always turned her on to think of me in these scenarios. We had a few MFMs and they were hot. She wanted to try a MMF but never found the right guy.
    Now nothing for the last 3 years. Now I think of sucking a few nice cocks again. Is it the lack of sex at home that gets married guys thinking about it? Since it's been so long ago I don't think of myself as bisexual.......just bi curious.
     
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  2. phil1965

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    I've never done anything with another bloke, nor have I any desire to, however I had a friend who kept getting in trouble and ended up doing several short spells in jail, he had this really nice girlfriend and she used to pop over to visit me, more often than not when my girlfriend was out! She always wore low tops and mini skirts on these visits and I knew that her motives went far beyond bringing me the latest new from her fella in jail.
    One day she arrived wearing a very very short skirt, the tiniest of tops and very little else, I decided to put an end to it at this point and point blank told her that I knew what she was up to and there was no way I was going to fuck my mates bird behind his back, especially when he was inside, it just wasn't right!
    She got all upset over this and explained that he'd given her the ok to have sex with someone, so long as it was just sex, and didn't develop any further, so she'd decided to try and see if I'd do the deal, "just fuck me and then I'll go home" she explained, "it doesn't have to be often, just once a week or so, anyway it's not like he's not getting anything".
    I was totally lost at this point, if he was in jail how the hell was he 'getting some', surely he wasn't shagging a female prison officer? She then went on to explain that every time he ended up in jail he'd have sex with blokes, "he's not gay or anything, and he's a giver not a receiver" she insisted. To be honest it was all new to me, I'd never heard of it before, then recently I was watching a documentary about prisons and they were saying that there are a lot of blokes who are what is termed, 'gay for the stay', in that they'll have sex with other males while locked up but revert back to females when released, it was also interesting to note that most of them were 'givers', rather than 'takers' and this could lead to tensions when certain males became too attached to the 'bitches' (men who were receivers) who often had sex with more than one man.
     
  3. wilsjane

    wilsjane Nutty Professor HipForums Supporter

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    My question is whether barefoot guys who enjoy footplay with other guys bi.?????
    Just a thought. :yum::yum::yum:
     
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  4. wilsjane

    wilsjane Nutty Professor HipForums Supporter

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    I wonder whether they go off and rob another bank the day that they are released. :yum::yum:

    On your original point, it sounds like very bad idea, that would leave everyone emotionally messed up at the end of the day.

    Thought provoking posts like this, are one of the things that I love about HF.
     
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  5. Rots in hell

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    Yeah yeah yeah ! Did you shag her though ??
     
  6. Aerianne

    Aerianne Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    How often do straight guys have Gay sex?

    Never.

    Next question?
     
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  7. phil1965

    phil1965 Senior Member

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    I have to agree with you on messing people up, I suppose when you get locked up for a short while, say a couple of months, it's really no different to working away like on an oil rig, or abroad, as I said I've absolutely no interest in men and I really don't think I'd want my wife/girlfriend getting seen to by another bloke while I wasn't around, it's got far too much potential to go badly wrong.I used to know some really 'naughty' individuals back in the day, if they got caught they were looking at a minimum of 2 years inside, and I mean doing 2, not getting a 2 stretch and coming out in a year. Most of these guys would break up with their girls if they got sent down, they said it was easier than having to worry about what she was doing on the 'out', or waiting for a 'dear john' letter.
     
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  8. phil1965

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    No, I didn't although after my girl went off with a bloke behind my back, I really wished I had though.
     
  9. Irminsul

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    I have male gay sex once a year when I'm straight.
     
  10. Irminsul

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    Oh what so you didn't even pork her in that long post? Lol.

    That's like getting to the bottom of a bag of dorittos and no collecters card in there
     
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  11. Rots in hell

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    Should have done mate every hole's a goal ! Or used to be in my case hahaha
     
  12. phil1965

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    Reminds me of one of the lads in the late 70's, he'd hit on a bird in a pub and buy her half a lager, when she'd almost drank it he'd ask if he was shagging her later, when she asked why he was asking his reply was, 'well if I'm not you can buy your own bloody lager', most of the time it used to work too, lucky sod.
     
  13. Bicaptain My Captain

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    ...most of the time it used to work too, lucky sod."

    Reminds me of a friend in college who used to ask every pretty girl if she wanted to fuck. He got fucked a lot. And got slapped a lot. He said it was worth it.
     
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  14. phil1965

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    I was once told you've more chance with a pretty girl, most people think they wouldn't be interested so don't ask whereas the less attractive ones get asked all the time.
     
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  15. Dax

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    Usually only when they are incarcerated and are pinned down by four large inmates.
     
  16. Varmint

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    Back in the day, hot or not, any gal that didn't hurt my eyes was a potential partner. The moment any gal gave any hint of self-importance or entitlement, however, it was over. No exceptions, no excuses. They were pretty rare back then, but that all changed in the 90's. These days I don't even want to bother, and haven't dated anyone in over a decade.
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

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    doritos have prizes in germany? well this is bullshit.
     
  18. Irminsul

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    To be fair I only remember them in Asutralia when they were Looney Tune Tazos or Dragon Ball Z Tazos.
     
  19. Bullzaye

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    I haven't read through all these posts. The simple answer is that "straight" guys *never* have gay sex. How difficult is that? If a guy "occasionally" has male-on-male sex, then he's bisexual, at the very least...assuming he is still also attracted to women.

    By definition...how can someone be considered to be "straight" (meaning...only attracted to the opposite sex) if they are engaging in same sex sexual activity? Seems quite straightforward to me.
     
  20. I'minmyunderwear

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    rape is the only possible exception i can think of. but for some reason, a lot of gay or bisexual guys are in denial about their sexual orientation, and they all seem to post on hipforums.
     
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