Just curious about an objective conversation on sexual desire. I'm more of an orally flexible bi male, meaning I have sexual desire for oral sex constantly...but I could split it between men and women depending on who is available. I just haven't found someone who has the same level of sexual desire day after day...but I'm sure they do exist. So, what is a healthy amount of desire to have?
I always thought of myself as having a problem. I always think about it. And desire it. Driving, watching a ball game, watching TV and find I'm looking at the weather girls ass....always! I actually went to my doctor about it as my wife at the time, (now ex) held sex from me. He said there was nothing wrong with me and refused to give me anything to curb the urge. Now, with my new fiance, its a never ending sexual exploration that if it has any limits, we haven't found them yet. She even has stated that she can't believe she found someone who could match her insatiable sexual appetite, much less wear her out. I told her my story and she understood. Its a wonderful thing when two connect as we have. She's amazing. Unless one of us is sick or hurt, it is a constant thing. And now I know I'm not strange or anything to boot.
