How much is too much?

I do initiate it every once in a while. I would do so more if I weren't afraid of rejection - that always sucks. The thing is though, I want him to want me too. It sucks when it's just one sided.

As for your question as to when it started and what changed, I can pin point it exactly - it was when I moved in. When we were dating we'd have sex nearly every day. Then I eventually moved in and now we're married. But when I moved in it was like he didn't have to put on a show anymore or something. Like it was all just an act or for show?????

 

Sorry, I just realized you already posted about this in more detail in a different thread and I've responded to that, so please ignore my previous post on this thread. It is obviously irrelevant to your situation. I will edit it right now.

 

Sounds like he thinks he proved himself and now he doesn't have to. Cut off the internet and cut him off until he changes and if that doesn't work find someone who will take care of you and not just themselves. Don't ever think that there isn't someone out there who can make you happy.

 

Thanks That makes me feel good, or at least that this is not normal anyhow.

 

I dont see the big deal.

 

A woman has needs!

 

what needs are they miss p

 

Sexual needs - you name it! Passion, lust, spontaneity, the touch, the lick, etc! The sky is the limit!!!

 

you missed out the kissing and cuddling miss p

 

yes of course that too! Mmmm and foreplay that's always fun!

 

yes lots of fun!

 

mastubation is safe, free, and very pleasurable. I say enjoy it as often as you like.

 

i totally agree

 

I was talking to a doctor friend of mine once, and he defined addiction as "Whist a habit may remain a habit, it only becomes an addiction when it can be regarded as being harmful".

Masturbation, it itself, is rarely harmful, except when taken to excess, when it starts to take over your daily life. On the whole, though, simple Nature will refuse to let that happen, as once spent, you will have to undergo an ever increasing duration of a rest period, when you'll have difficulty enough to be able to get an erection, let alone manage to do anything with it. However, after allowing a reasonable time for your body to replenish itself, things will be totally back to normal. Unfortunately, this time tends to take longer as you get older - the average peak for maximum ejaculations in a given period being about 19 years.