Alright fellas, I've got a question for you. Say you are in a relationship, maybe not the best but a relationship none the less. You work for a company and you meet a girl and the two of you begin chatting. First friendly. She tells you she is also in a relationship. Again, not the best but she's sorta stuck because they live together. Your conversations turn sexual and the two of you begin sexting and the sorts. Well, one day you suggest, in a joking manner, you might get a hotel room. She texts you back with the location of a very, VERY ritzy area in your city where you could possibly get a room. You know why you're getting a room too, ok. You look up the prices for the rooms and they are $300 on the low end for one night. She tends to be a high class type of woman, or so she wants you to think, but would it be worth it to drop $300 for a room for a night (actually, a few hours), which you do not plan to sleep in because you've both gotta go home. You're just getting the room so the two of you can have a place to meet for a little while. You and this girl have never even done so much as kissed or even held hands. She wants you to drop that much on a room to get with her but there are plenty of other more affordable hotels in your city which are more reasonably priced. No, I'm not talking about any of those hourly places but hotels that are more budget friendly. Would it be worth it for you or would you think this girl might possibly think her pussy is worth a $300 room. Ladies, would you think that if a man couldn't / wouldn't drop $300 for a room for a few hours he's not worth your time? If he suggested a more "budget friendly" location would you go and think less of him or would you go at all? Just curious. I know a guy in this situation and he wants to know if he should drop this much cash for a one night/afternoon stand. I told him no but the decision is solely his.
Many women are not interested in guys they perceive as “cheap”. It’s a test. She may be interested in something long term but she wants to see if it’s worth it.
NOPE No matter how attractive she is, how horny you are. Unless she was serious girlfriend and you have the occasional splurge at an expensive hotel. Not worth it. If I am considered cheap so what, I’d be wise who I spend this amount of money on.
The guy is in a relationship and so is the woman. The whole thing is cheap. Maybe the expensive room is to make it feel less so
Tell your friend that if she wants him that bad she should split the cost of the room with him. She may or may not know what the hotel she suggested charges for a room. It might have been the first one that came to her mind. Many coworker trysts use the back spaces in the parking lot to get it on or just do it on the desk when nobody is around because they have become so wanton for each other it doesn't matter where the fucking takes place. If she wants to have an affair with him, really wants to, the location doesn't matter. Offering to fuck him in a expensive hotel room if she is aware of the cost is only asking for him to possibly fulfill a fantasy of hers. But if she ponies up half the cost the tryst becomes an experience he can give her. It's all in how badly he wants to fuck her and she him.
Been there.... done that (2000). And no... it wasn't worth it. Not even close. I have few real regrets in life, and that is at the top.
NO I have never and will never cheat. The Universe is way too good to me. My life would turn to shit AND my wonderful woman who gives me all the sex I could ever want would not understand. If pushed I would take the girls photo and show it to my girl to see if she is interested in a bit of licking? or threesome or 4 some?. People are crazy. Life is good for them, they get a little bored and fuck up the entire relationship in one horny afternoon.
I think if people are already in a relationship, that relationship should come first or end before getting into another. I'm not into complication.
