how much does appearance matter?

i think completely opposite to this. to me it is only personality. a girl could be missing teeth and have a giant tumor growing off her head... and if she had a compatible personality then i would totally be into her.

not to say I'm not picky when it comes to women, their are very few girls Ive ever met who have the type of personality, and though process that is attractive to me.

 

looks don't matter, the size of their wallet does




acccccctuallly.....i care about looks abit, but i find alot of guys to be cute, i like guys
alot!
i'm still the shy insecure little girl i've always been, so alot of the time i get intimidated by good looks
it's funny sort of seeing guys, that i find to be attractive..cute hippie boys, it's funny to see them get intimidated by me...i ain't nothing to be intimidated by
i've been starting to notice that, and it's a weird thing
i hate having to make the first move, and with this one guy i'm gonna have to....

looks matter because they're what first attract you to the person, they keep you staying around so you can get to know the person

looks do matter, but everyone has a different idea of good looks

truthfully i think that my face is the only thing getting me dates, cause i have the personality of a dead fish that had add

 

i think (from a guys point of view) that a good looking girl really doesnt mean that much to me. I mean yes, shes sexually attractive but in terms of love and a relationship i would much prefer someone who i can identify with and havbe chemistry with. But im not saying they could be disgusting and it wouldnt matter....im just saying you dont have to be gorgeous to win me over. I could easily fall for a girl who really wasnt that attractive...but if she had a lot in common with me and everything, and we had some crazy energy flowing between us, i would not be hesitant at all to show her some love lol.

i do agree with some previous posters that good looks only last for so long....eventually they dont matter that much (if they arent the right personality for you) and you might find yourself looking for someone else. But the hard part is (for me atleast) finding a girl who i can indentify with...because theres not that many girls that are into the same stuff as me lol

 

I dont think appearance matters at all. I've dated people who were so not attractive at all, but they were amazing people and that made them beautiful to me and my shallow friends would ask me what was I doing? (Yeah, I cant believe they would say that either, but they did).
But now my boyfriend is an amazing person AND super cute, so I guess Im not allow to say appearance doesnt matter? I mean is not because he's cute that I'm with him, that's just like a bonus :tongue:

 

very true...


Now I consider looks and appearance different things... Looks is just based on if their face is busted or not, appearance I tend to think of the way they carry themselves and how they are clothed and so forth... You can have someone with a sorta crusty face but they can dress it up a bit with a nice hairdo or some clean clothes and their crusty face doesn't look as bad... I don't know where I am going with this... but there has to be some intrigue to the way someone looks, whether in a good way or a bad way, to get them interested in a person or want to get to know them.. just my thought...I mean, what makes you want to first start talking to someone before you really know them, because they look intriguing to you....

 

appearance really does not matter to me. if the person is "real" then that is a beautiful person. real beauty comes from within.