This is not a slam on anyone who has been raped or molested. That is a serious crime which needs to be dealt with. However, I have dated or been out with no less than 30 girls/women (from age 15 until I was married), and the large majority of them (around 22 or 23 claimed to have been either raped or molested). When probed, I found out that many of them were claiming rape was really consensual sex they just decided to do to shut the guy up or something of that nature. That's not rape, that's pressure that YOU decided to give into. And unless you cannot be responsible for yourself (ie child, infant, handicapped, etc.), that doesn't count as rape. Unless you were forced, it's not rape. Other women I've met claimed to have been molested, but their stories were so confused and contradictory, that I was walking off scratching my head. The funny thing is that one girl claimed she was molested at 15 by a 19 year old. I asked her if she consented...she said yes. I asked her why she feels she was molested, she said, "I don't really, but my friend told me I was." Oooohh....I see. Your friend dictated your victimization. RAPE & MOLESTATION is a SERIOUS, SERIOUS accusation that can ruin the life of someone just as much as the HORRIBLE ACT itself. Many non-threatening peaceful people have been accused of molestation or rape by women who later rescinded it because they were coerced into believing it through peer pressure, some experts' advice or hypnosis. Gee, thanks...15 years in prison, loss of a family, loss of an entire livelihood and now you admit that you COULD'VE BEEN WRONG?!?! Anyway...feel free to comment...either way. I am not saying anything most of you haven't thought anyhow.