For those of you in a relationship, how many times would you say you have sex on average in a week or even a day? Just curious and interested to know.
Not enough because I'm on hormonal birth control and it makes my body and soul numb. Can't wait to switch to the copper IUD. Don't ever take hormonal birth control. Sorry just had to vent my frustration. I'll leave the thread to those of you who actually still have sex drives.
^ I take HRT (hormone replacement therapy), this has the great side effect of giving me the libido of a 25 year old!! (I'm 58 now) It's the best thing since the invention of sliced bread as far as I'm concerned. To answer the original question, sex (penetrative): once or twice a week, partnered masturbation but no actual penis/vagina penetration: 4 to 5 times a month. (I also masturbate solo once or twice a month)
Sorry to hear that you're having a hard time on BC. It takes a long time to find the one that's right for you. It's taken me four attempts to find one that seems to be ok for me. Have you considered switching since it's affecting you that much?
Depends on the relationship. In the bonding phase? Let's say men start to fear me. In the he sits around and watches TV viewers and smokes pot all day phase? Rarely. Typically? When the "yeah, let's go" vibes are synched? Almost nightly, at least three days a week. Then there's doing distance, when it's flirting and teasing over email, phone or text for months and then the weekend together...see first answer.
You can't count a handy, it's gotta be full peno, bro. Defining two girls in bed is hard, so I call it "being intimate with each other". Whether it's sex or not I'm not sure, but if we are both having fun and achieving orgasm, that's good enough yeah? Then add me for once a day minimum. Except on vacation. On vacation it's like once every 3-4 days. =[
Usually daily for me, sometimes twice a day. Once in a while I have a day where nothing happens. That's a nice break having 3 men to keep up with.
Typically twice a week. Date night on a Friday or Saturday and once in the middle of the week. We have fallen into pretty much a Wed/Sat routine. Everyday when we are somewhere tropical on vacation; otherwise, everyday would be too much.
Typically once or twice a week...need to improve it now. It generally is one round at a time. Wifey can go on and on though. Our best has been 9 rounds in a night couple of years back.
Daily sometimes Twice! The BF has been out of town for a few days. So it'll be an all nighter tonight
It varies. 3 times a week at a minimum to 5 or 6 maximum. My boyfriend works 13 hours a day and I work 10 and our shifts are literally opposite so when he works, no sex. When he's off...it's on haha. If it were up to me, it'd be multiple times a day.
I wonder if you guys never have quarrels - at least for me a big turn off - therefore I would never think about a daily frequency. So 2-4 times a week is already something ;-)
My husband is only home Friday/Saturday/Sunday... With that said, we have sex 3-5x a week... We masturbate together and apart during the week... Sometimes together over the phone, sending each other mini videos or photos... BTW Married 25 years.
Wow, you sound exactly like that last girlfriend I had before meeting my wife. I took her virginity. After that, she couldn't hardly seem to survive without a cock pumping inside her. I think two-three times a day would have been a reasonable count for her, with at least twice that many on a Saturday or Sunday!