how many sexual partners?

Between 30 and 40.

 

I thought I had already posted in this thread but seemingly not. 6 - 8 partners in a lifetime seems incredibly small if u take a maybe average sexually active life of maybe 50+ years.

When I married 26 years ago (& I could still remember them) my wife and I counted up the women I had been with....65....that was over 22 years single; so not really a huge average per year. She had not been so active but had her tally though if I remember more like 10 guys over 13 years.

Since then there has only been one other woman...one fling in Indonesia, once, but maybe more than 200 guys.....only about 8 of them during my 22 years single. I had told her of these liasons before we married.

My marriage is gradually fading, partly as a result, but partly because we have both changed and being older I am at a different stage in life; and perhaps I have moved from middle of the bisexual scale to the gay end of it. I still look and am attracted by women, but most of the women I like would probably look on me as a dirty old man, whereas there are young guys that I find very desirable, that also find an old guy desirable - and don't apply that epithet.

And also the young guys today gave grown up in a different era and are far more relaxed with their sexuality which I find so refreshing

So in the last 16 years the average of my m2m liaisons has shot up......perhaps it's as I get older and sex is something I enjoy...so why not...I love the variety...play safe as much as possible and hey if I was asked by young guys today I would say go for it, have as much sex as possible with whatever sexual partner/s is your inclination. I do not believe in re-incarnation so we have one life, why not enjoy it?

Just my take on it.....

Simon!

 

Roughly ten-twelvish.

 

Recounted and I'm at 13. Damn, I'm a ho. Really though,does it count if the sex was the worst you ever had and forgettable? Also does it count if I can't remember the guys name and just wrote ''socks" in my tally..cuz he left his socks on during sex..

 

Do non-physically-present spiritual partners count because if so I'm hoping to some day find out what the number is and I'm thinking it's going to make me famously angry.

 

Interesting question.

 

I've been to Egypt and I didn't even need to leave my flat to get there.

 

Tell me more. Please.

 

Don't wanna crash the thread but I'm sure I'll be blabbing about it somewhere, sometime.

 

Feel free to start a conversation with me if you like. I’m intrigued.

 

How many sex partners have you had?

 

I think an even dozen.

 

enough for a calendar!

 

Lol yes.

 

How many physically present partners have you had?

 

I haven't been with an other person in the flesh for ten years. Lemme look in the rearview mirror: OMG, whatta slut!

 

I really don’t like the word slut. Sex is enjoyable. Some people enjoy more of it than others. Lol

 

Thousands.

 

I counted one time and now I can't remember. It's quite a few. I can't remember the second person I slept with for instance. I remember the first, and other memorable occasions. Then of course there are some who I regretfully did not sleep with.

 

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I've porked some bananas but never an egg.