how many sexual partners?

Sounds like a system that works great for you. Good fun and stress relief. Thanks for sharing.

 

At least 30

 

That's respectable. I like that you don't know exactly. I mean who keeps count once double digits are achieved - rhetorically. What matters is that you're enjoying yourself and contributing to the general well being. Until when and if you should choose to settle into a monogamous relationship, I wish you great times increasing your number. Cheers!

 

That’s true. Thanks

 

I know the exact number. There were two before I found my wife. She took care of my needs for many years until she couldn't. As our sex life diminished I went without until I had an unanticipated encounter with a masseuse. She was the fourth and believe it or not I was so naive I didn't see it coming. After that experience I have been able to find other women to have sex with. There have been fuck buddies, masseuses, and escorts. I've kept a journal of every encounter. Total number today is 31.

 

A journal, wow, that's wild.

So much for discretion, though.

 

7 people but could have been more. Confidence issues put a stop to that

 

asf?

 

Reading these I actually don't feel bad about my measley 6 partners

 

I lost count I started when I was 16

 

I'd have to guess and say 150 with 20 being women and 130 being men. I've never been shy to drop to my knees and suck a guys cock.

 

30 at last count, but several were one nighters.

 

Good for you, you have a perfect sex appetite..

 

And why should you? It's not about the quantity but the quality in the end.

Also worth considering, it's an integer which can be incremented, but not decremented.

 

Never kept a count. But in one day I was one of eight guys that had a gang bang with my wife.
I probably shouldn't have been there, they were much younger and aggressive,
I should have been sitting in a bar sipping a drink.
It was wild watching her taking on those guys, it was like the videos, but real life is a lot more messy and intense. It was the last gang bang she did, she enjoyed it but it was enough, she was 38, not slowing down just done with that.

 

2, and proud of it

 

is it bad that i lost count...

 

I did too, so who am I to judge?

 

Three, the girl who took my virginity, my wife who I met after breaking up with the first girl, and the girl with whom I had a fling a few years into the marriage. That was in the seventies, Cosmopolitan was saying that monogamy was old fashion and a few extramarital flings is not the end of the marriage so get over it, and my wife would occasionally say there was someone else she wanted to make it with, or she would complain that I was the only man she had sex with and that she was going to go through her life only having sex with one man. When the opportunity came up I figured it was only a matter of time before my wife had an affair so go for it. I thoroughly enjoyed the fling and felt no guilt. Every two or three months my wife would ask in a joking way if I had sex with anyone else recently so I said yes when she asked after my fling. I felt no guilt when answering and I figured she would go out and have a fling or affair of her own without being racked with guilt. Instead she blew up at me, and I guess we came close to a divorce, we are still married. The moral: if you want to maintain a monogamous marriage, then don't say that extramarital sex is no big deal, or that you want to have sex with someone else.

 

Around 70 or 80 but I haven't kept precise track.

 

To all the girls I've loved before who traveled in and out my door. Way too many, who the fuck knows the exact number. The winds of change continued blowing every time I tied to stay, some day it will carry me away.