How Many Sexual Partners Have You Been With???

Hmm lets see.

Moni, Marie, Vicky, the girl from Melbourne who I met in a chat room, Anita, Ginny, some Japanese woman, Kitty, the other girl I met in a chatroom, the girl at the swinger's party, Annabelle, Monica .............

I'm getting too old to remember everything ...........

 

"Over 50" should be up there lol. I've been with more than 50 professionals lol.

 

A gentleman never tells.

 

2 for me.

 

Not very many promiscuous ppl in this thread

somewhere around 25 for me, not proud nor ashamed and will be adding to that list until I find Mrs Right

 

6. But I'd have been happy with just the 1.

 

That's one of the nicest things I've read in a while.

 

10....i hit my goal for the year

 

While I'm all for the whole free love stuff, I havn't really gotten around much, and of course now I've met the woman of my dreams and won't be gettin' around at all, cept with her that is

 

Just 1

 

1. And the only way I want (or expect) that to change is if there's a third with us (though I certainly wouldn't mind that)

Also, sexual partner =/= someone you fucked.
Sexual partner = someone you got sexual with.

But the answers still the same for me, unless you count webcam =P

 

Aww. That's sweet. I only want to sleep with one person, unless she's up for a threesome.

And who said romance is dead?

 

I don't see how sexual monogamy is needed for emotional monogamy.. And I don't see what's so romantic about sexual monogamy anyways...

 

You don't think there is a deep emotional connection during sex between two people who love each other?

 

Yes, I do. Which is why bringing in someone we don't love couldn't harm it.

Sex can be very emotional, sex can also be not emotional at all. For some people, maybe sex is only emotional; and I know people who don't find sex to be the least bit emotional.

When I'm in my girl and I look into her eyes, it's almost like we are making a complete circle, I feel like I am within and throughout her, and she is within and throughout me.
I don't see how sticking a branch onto that circle could be very harmful =P In fact, I don't see how much of anything could hurt this particular circle.

 

With all respect to you, Duck, I believe that your first sentence is extremely naive. To bring a third party into a relationship can be extremely damaging, no matter how much you believe it wouldn't be.

People believe they can turn their feelings on and off, at will. The reality isn't quite as straightforward.

It sounds like you have a fantastic relationship with your girl - I would carefully consider doing anything which would risk it.

 

Oh no, I know how much it can be - and I definitely understand how you read it that I didn't think that.
What I meant more of, is how strong our love is, I really don't see it happening

I don't get how this has anything to do with it.

Oh, I wouldn't.
We aren't nearly ready for anything like that. We're only three years in, still rather new; relatively. We still need to settle into our relationship a bit more, get more secure in it and whatnot. We're at the point where we can look at porn together, talk about who else is sexy and whatnot - but I don't think that's nearly the same thing at all. Plus, we don't know anyone yet =P
I just like keeping an open mind towards the future.

Oh, if you want to talk about this more, please send me a private message, I don't wanna hijack the thread too much =P

 

less than 50 more than 20 could have been alot more but i drugged out alot of times instead of sexing out------and now i wish would have sexed instead of drugged--oh well and yes i mixed the 2---by drugged i mean so wired or wasted that sex wasnt possible----you know guy stuff-----one committed relationship 4years and one free relationship also 4 years---that chick was soo cool 3somes for treats and if tired shed say go fuck my friend--yeah that chick i loved and she became my babies momma------btw that chick was also bisexual so shed have her girlfriend live with us---off limits too me---hahahaha----freedom is a beutiful thing--and by friend i didnt mean her girlfriend just whatever random girl happened to be living there too---yeah i had a scene

 

Not necessary, I think you've done a good job of explaining what you meant.

 

I guess its like they say about the 60s - " if you can you remember - then you weren't there "
Making Love to a partner of consenting choice is / should be .. endless
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