I'm almost ashamed to admit this, but here goes... I lost my virginity when I was 16 in late 1984 or early 1985. I kept a list of girls I had sex with until 1988 or 1989 when I lost (gulp!) it. I still do not know what happened to it. Anyway, I was up to 70 or so when I lost the list. I was married in 1994 and have been with no one but my wife since then. I would estimate my total at around 120. I am, believe it or not, completely disease-free. I am absolutely sure that, if I was a teenager today and pulled the same shit I did 20 years ago, I'd be dead within 5 years. That's my story. EDIT: Sex = vaginal and/or anal penetration. .
Better to have lovers you can count on rather than lovers you can only count. And if you can't even do that--maybe you're having some trouble in life.
(laughs) *is troubled then* Zero (of course, that's under the mindset that I have met a startlingly low number of girls -- or even people, for that matter -- that I could safely say a relationship with them stands a chance at working).
i think its around 17 or 18. unfortunately though ive been mostly single my whole life, so most of those are the 3 night stand variety. would rather it just be one forever, but till that happens, i'll add a couple every year i s'pose.
crook, I have a question. Are you very sexually active because you've been raped or have you been raped because you're very sexually active? Not that that means you are at fault at ALL! But I'm concerned that you were raped twice. I've been in your position and I get the feeling that you have lost sense of how important sex can be. A lot of girls think that once they've had so many partners or if they've been raped, they're no longer "good girls" anymore and it doesn't matter how many guys they sleep with. Please respect yourself and don't get sucked into that mindset. Maybe you're not, but it's not normal for a girl to have been raped twice and slept with more guys than her age. I just thought I'd put my two sense in because it disturbed me a bit. I could be totally wrong.
im a big advocate of sex for love sake, not just for pleasure, so i can see the concern with so many lovers at such a young age. but being raped twice, although completely infurriating, is not abnormal. i would think about 3 outa 4 girls are raped at least once before the age of 25. its rarely thier "fault" and should not be happening, but her openess with it, and not being ashamed of it, is very respectable, and the biggest step in the healing process.