How many is too many?

I, like the great Wilt Chamberlain before me, have slept with 20,000 women.

 

were they the same 20,000 as wilt?

 

Search in the waters of the deeper mind pool.

 

what if a girl has been with like 50 girls and then chooses a male for the first time?

 

I think it's fine.

A little experience never hurt anybody. Most of my experience was in high school and the years following personally. I don't know how much of that chalks up to good experience because when you're young you don't care about letting her finish; at least I didn't. I didn't know how, so the experience doesn't count.

 

Test the water before jumping in. Never too many, it's a continuous learning process.

 

thinking about trying something new?

 

maybe one day

 

I met my wife when I was 23. Before we met I'd seen a lot of guys get married because they lusted after a gal and then discover, after it was too late, that they weren't compatible in ways other than sexual attraction.

So I made a checklist and, if I dated a girl more than once, would begin filling it out. If the girl didn't pass, I just didn't get emotionally involved.

I remember some of the categories.
Religion
Politics
Hobbies
If I liked her family
Her desires for children
And, of course, Sex.
Now, not only did I rate the girl on how good in bed, but also how adventurous. One on my definite disqualifiers was if she was inexperienced. I wanted a girl who had lots of experience so she'd know what she liked.
Now my wife said that she'd had sex with four or five but I'm thinking more, even at just 19. And I made it clear that I'd had sex with more girls/women than I could remember.

 

As long as I'm my wife's last, what's the difference?

 

I don't think it makes any difference. Although I think it would be nice if she'd had multiple partners before me. I've done the virgin thing and honestly I prefer a woman who's been out and explored a bit. I've certainly been with my fair share of women in my life and I think it's been a benefit in the long run.

 

I don't think it matters. I have had sex with well over 100 guys, yet I have never heard my hubby complain or fret over it. Funny enough though, he has only been with 3 other women besides me.

 

I don't know why that's funny?

 

Not many men seem to take issue with that. Well, at least less issue than if it would have been 50 men

 

My second wife had to have had a lot of partners to become a world-class cock sucker. Unfortunately, she didn't quit practicing on others when we married.

 

If you love someone, it doesn't matter. That said, I think 9 is bordering on pretty gross.

 

Why gross. Everybody has a body and sex appetites, why not use them as you feel. Never too much as long as no one is forcing anything let it flow.

 

Gross.

 

So 8, your number is a ratio of 8 dicks to one vagina before you are turned off?

 

That seems to be the case.