still busy trying to like women IRL, unfortunately. if a girl has a bf, does she ever want a guy she's talking to or does she HINT at said guy to still make a move? she kept going, you would do great with a [woman describing her exact self and background - or maybe her sister, I really don't know ]. but then ofc the topic of having a bf comes up. :? really hate that.
*calgirl^ yeah I assume that for safety reasons. I even gave this one a playful pat on the head cuz we had a good convo and such and left it at that. but i feel at times there have been certain girls, who have a bf simply as the fact, but then act all salty when I don't make advances on them because I know this fact. like what? if you're shopping for a new bf, maybe you shouldn't tell people you are in a 3 year relationship with a dude. :?? (will a girl MAKE SURE to say she's single or not mention the BF if she is actually interested in a guy?) Anyways, I'm not sure, and for fun reasons, I probably shouldn't overthink it. Empty flirting is fine. If I'm really digging the next girl in the future, perhaps I will make a further comment about it, in person.
maybe a girl acts salty because the bf is a disappointment, and then this prospect in front of them (ie you) doesn't seem interested either. Nope, often a girl won't be direct about being single. Too risky that they'll scare someone off.
soo ass-backwards. the fact she HAS a bf is 'why i'm not interested.' the fact she ISNT direct, or ambiguous about not being single is why i'd be scared away. why do women and men blatantly misunderstand each other. Actually I know that answer already but whatev a woman's behavior in this leads me to have no choice but to try and steal her away from her current boyfriend if I happen to be interested.
If she says she isn't single she makes herself unavailable for normal guys wether she wants to or not I would say. Not worth getting a headache over kokujin.
So why do men/women misunderstand each other? If a girl is taken and flirtatious and truly interested in you, they are taking baby steps rather than leap in. Everyone protects themselves.
I don't like it unless a woman is explicitly forward about her feelings. I really hate the flighty shit that leaves you guessing and confused.