How many have you been with

probably somewhere around 35, 2 were grrls. i've only been with one guy for the last 8yrs or so though.

 

I can't remember the EXACT number of partners. Maybe twenty? I have had a couple of one night stands...most were guys I was with for a month or so. BJ's? Countless. I always promised myself I wouldn't keep track, but I think I would be able to remember all of their names if you asked. Hmmm....maybe I'll figure it out.

I love sex....but I've been really trying to be wise with my body lately. Somehow having sex doesn't give me emotional satisfaction like it used to (well, duh,right?). I've never been with a woman though...always wondered what it'd be like.

 

way too many. i only count the ones that i was in some sort of relationship with though....otherwise i would feel like a slut.

 

finally! somebody on my level

 

Woohooo! I did that once, well, it was crazy blowjobs and footjobs with the first one and then pussy licking, fucking and toe-sucking with the second one... What a fun day! I don't have any guilt about it because I wasn't deeply involved with either of them, and well, as much as I love women and sex I don't do a great job of pursuing it for myself, so when it comes around I take it and live it up.

My feet are size 12.5, but I've never had any complaints, just compliments.

-Jeffrey

 

Dude, 36 men... You can't tell me that was all responsible safe sex... sounds more like gay cruising. How can you not have HIV by now? I mean, I hope you don't, but this is exactly what gives homosexuality a bad name (not that I care, or have to, though). The public has the sense -- and it appears that it is not unwarranted -- that gay men are all about cruising and having anonymous sex with people whose backgrounds and safety they can't vouch for. Doesn't that scare the shit out of you?

-Jeffrey

 

You're 21 years old... sex over 8 years... so, starting at age 13 (which is way too young)...

How can you possibly call them "boyfriends" -- I mean, how long could you possibly have "dated" them, and how deep could these "relationships" possibly have been at those ages? You and I must have some very very different definitions of things...

-Jeffrey

 

Okay, let's say we go back to you were 20 years old. 35 women in 15 years, that's over 2 per year... How can you have had "serious relationships" with all these women, all of which (on average) could not have lasted more than 6 months? And if they overlapped, then, well, how "serious" could a relationship be if it's one of several going on at a given time?

-Jeffrey

 

So you lie to yourself to feel better about yourself?

How's that workin' out for ya?

-Jeffrey

 

I've had sex with 3 or 4 different girls.... gotten bjs from 3 or 4 different girls... but there are the some unknown times... so there may be a few more sexual encounters there

 

I'm honestly curious about this, since to me, 20 or so sex partners by the age of 21 is staggering...

WHERE do you go about collecting all these partners? First of all, are you really hot? Second of all, did you just throw down on a bed with someone at random because you felt some sexual attraction? How do you pack that many people into X number of years? What age were you when you started? Even 17, (which to me is a normal-ish age, although I was 18) that means an awful lot of guys each year just to hit 20 by 4 years later. Yeow.

Yeah, I know my posts have sounded judgmental... I guess that I have to be honest and say that I have gotten LESS sex than I have wanted so far in my life. I've enjoyed what I've had, but I have much more of an appetite than what I'd need to match my ability/drive to go out and get sexual partners. I guess it's because I don't go looking in the places, and in the ways, that most guys look for sex. I am not willing to change myself, and become one of these club-hopping shitheads who are really just trying no-holds-barred approaches, up to and including pretending to be ways they are not, just to get a girl to give some degree of sex to them, relationship be damned.

I see people throwing around sex -- even some of them apparently getting hurt through sex -- and wonder where the fuck everyone's judgment and standards are.

In the meantime, here I am wanting to give one -- one -- woman, my full attention and love, and no one seems to work out...

-Jeffrey

 

WTF is your problem peacefuljeffrey.. holy shit... i can't believe i gave you good rep today for apologizing to missfontella in another thread.. it seems you need to do a lot more of that.. apologizing that is.

where you do get off sympathizing with someone who "couldn't say no" and practically giving him a high five, then dissing on every woman and man with homosexual encounters who has a high number... *shakes head...* you're going to give me an ulcer.

I wont go any further... i'm sure you all sense the irony in his username and his attitude.

 

I have a question for "peacefuljeffery"

Are you so arrogant that you believe only your standards, lifestyle, and experiences are worthwhile? Or are you so miserable that you come online to bash others to make yourself feel better about your limited views?

I have yet to see you post something truly constructive. You seem to be just pushing buttons. Is it a act or are you just that HUGE of a as.......well, you get my drift. Which is it? I just wanna know so I can know how to take you.

 

peaceful jeffrey = please put the crack pipe down...

 

I started having sex at 16, actually and I'm almost 22, so it's been six years. Not that that is much better, but when I was 17 (and excuse the sob story) my mom died. And I don't know if you know what it's like to lose the most important person in your life, but my mom was really all I had. When I lost her, I looked for love frantically, trying to fill in the space that she had left. I looked in all the wrong places. I know 20 sounds like a lot, but if you understood the circumstance, I doubt you would be so critical.

 

me, you get mad at

this jerk, you give an explanation he doesn't deserve?

 

Sorry, must have had PMS that day. I apologize. Today I must be feeling ESPECIALLY nice to calmly explain to a deuchebag who doesn't have a clue.

Have a good day Missfontella. =)

 

Bigones

 

holy shit. peacefuljefferey, you're a judgemental, self-pitying pick.

anyway i have this one friend who's a little older then me, 24, and has had sex with over 100 people (and unfortunately has herpes now)... and one day we were fucking around on his computer at his house and hidden in some random folder was a list. So just to piss him we printed it off, went and bought a big plaque that said centurian, and engraved each name into it and hung it on his bedroom wall.

but yeah the numbers:

fucked: 18 and two drank-too-much-and-don't-quite-remember
head: from another 10-12 that i haven't slept with.

 

I have kissed 6 boys
Made out with 5 boys
Seen three penises
Given handjobs to two
Given BJs to two (only one guy ever to completion in my mouth)
Had sex with one

Yeah, I'm really nerdy... until this semester I never made out or kissed anyone I was in a relationship with. Now I'm back with the one guy I had sex with, so it doesn't look that number is going to go up anytime soon