How many bi people we got out there?

I'm a bi Male. I do agree that we are a percentage of the whole. I'd say I'm 90/10 I'm emotionally attached to women. The guy just fills in what I dont get from a woman...sorry for the pun.

 

Bi Male here - at least sexually. Im heterosexual generally / emotionally & in LTR though have long history of mm / bi sex encounters

 

Bi Male here

 

What you said !

Ditto that !

 

As they say be happy with the skin your in or your true nature. Love everybody.

 

I have a theory on that. I truly believe we have more the one life. And our spirit/ soul brought some of our personalities into this life. It's a thought.

 

I am a bi male

 

Bi male

 

I am bi but prefer women but have a lot of gay fantisies

 

Bi male here. Well actually I think the new term that describes me is pan sexual. Anybody else?

 

I'm glad people are coming out about there sexuality but it's getting crazy. So many identities

 

Bi male

 

Bi male here. I want females for sex AND romance but I really enjoy guys for filling my desires for performing oral on a hard cock.

 

I am a man who finds women attractive. Like a nice shapely body with nice tits and ass. Not interested in the pussy anymore. (I used to LOVE the pussy). I wish I didn't find women attractive because once I am hard all I can think about is men. So I guess you would say I am bi when my cock is soft, gay when it is hard. Or as I say to my wife: "women make me hard, men make me cum"

 

I have been using pansexual to describe myself. It gets trying sometimes to explain the difference, so most of the time I tell people I'm bi. My wife just says I'm gay.

 

If you're married to a woman, why would she say you're gay ??
I'm also bisexual and married (actually, pansexual is more accurate, as I'm also attracted to M2F transgender women). My wife has known I'm bisexual from the very beginning. Initially, she was ok with it, and even though it's hot (She's also bisexual)... But as time has gone on (married 12 years now), she seems to be less accepting of my bisexuality, even though I've been nothing but accepting, supportive, and even encouraging of her to act on her bisexual needs if she desired to do so (and she has). She's ok with me watching bisexual, gay and transsexual porn, but that's about as far as her acceptance goes. I can understand her posessiveness and "jealousy" when it comes to other women, but just like her, I get different needs/desires met depending on wether I'm with a man or woman (Her. She's the only woman I need or desire).
I'm not gonna lie though. Like a LOT of guys, my desire to be with another man gets stronger and stronger as I get older, and without even telling my wife, I'm pretty sure she senses this as well.
In an ideal world, I'd keep my marriage in tact, and also have a romantic relationship (Not just sex. I'd like an actual relationship) with another man, and keep the 2 relationships separate from each other. I've even considered the idea of including my wife, if that's what it would take to meet my desires. I actually like the idea of persuing a relationship with a gay man, but if I were to include my wife, the guy would obviously need to be bisexual. I honestly believe the only way me persuing another man will work out is if I were to actively include my wife as well, because she now seems to be jealous of my attraction to men. It's almost as if she fears losing me to another man, which ISN'T the case at all... As I'm not looking to replace my wife, I only want/need to fulfill the needs/desires I have that my wife alone CANNOT meet/fulfill. I just wish she would reciprocate the same acceptance and support that I've given her regarding her bisexual needs/desires.

 

Hi Dave. It's been a while since I've posted on a forum. I've forgotten that tongue in cheek comments don't translate well. It was really just meant as a humorous aside. I know, I heard it in my head as I wrote it. She does say it in humor. She might even tell you I was gay-ish.

I know several men married to women who are gay. Not bi, but gay. Even in a society where gay is commonplace there are still those who need to put on that illusion. One couple is a good example where he is gay, she knows it and choses to stay with him for reasons they only understand.

You are so right about that desire that is only getting stronger as I get older. As my next birthday approaches I think how wonderful it wold be to find a gay/bi lover as my gift to me.

 

Bi male in New York here.

 

Bi male in Southern California here.

 

Dittos here. Describes me perfectly.