So at a BBQ /bonfire the other night the subject turned to sex as it often does with this group. The question was posed as to what was the perfect amount of time for sex. most of the women said that they wanted longer foreplay and less actual penetration. We as a group decided that it would be something like 2 hours and 20 min. 2 hrs of foreplay and 20 min. Of penetration. I would love the 2hrs of foreplay but after that much fun i don't know if I could last the 20mins. So what do all of you think?
With a guy - probably 20 mins of having him inside me (anywhere) is about right. We do dry out, and lube gets 'stale" Foreplay - if it massaging - forever. Tickling, rubbing, kissing, licking - about an hour. By then I'm potentially starting to lose enthusiasm. With a woman - the tickle, rub, kiss, lick can be extended as penetration is not necessarily the whole point of the exercise.
My wife and I are pretty good with 20 minutes or so of actually penetration sex. More than that gets to be pretty tiring for her (she is menopausal and has lukemia so she gets tired). Since we also have 4 kids, squeeking out 20 mintues for sex is a luxury these days!!
Hard to say for me. We tend to switch it up a lot and spend a lot of time playing and "taking turns" going down on each other interspersed with penetration multiple times in multiple positions. The wife loves getting me close to cumming and then letting me go limp again just so she can play with it and get me hard again. So it's hard to pin down a time for "foreplay" and "penetration", but we usually average 2-4 hours of "playtime".
I hate to tell you this but sex has nothing to do majority decisions. Also, every time I have watch on my wrist during sex something terrible happens.
