I'm still a virgin, but I'm curios on how long do guys last while having sex? Whenever I masterbait, I can last from about 1 minute - 3 minutes (depending on when i did it last). So I'm curious if it's going to be that long when I first do it? I don't want to be a "minute-man" Also how can one last longer?
You could masturbate a few times before having sex. You'd more likely last longer. If you do cum too fast, go down on her and suck her to orgasm. It feels so awesome to have a man suck his own cum from my pussy, I totally forgive him for cumming too fast.
How can one last longer? Stop jerking off like youre in a race where fastest time wins. Youre training yourself to cum too quickly. Just like the hare...slow and steady wins the contest.
I am thinking he isn't gonna wanna eat his own cum the first time he is with a woman to get her to forgive him, going with the third post ^^^^ relax, learn to like the feelings and make yourself cum later then earlier. Or try pleasing her first with foreplay, bets once she has cum if he is too quick then she won't mind, besides he can tell her that watching her cum made him lose his load fast, it would be a compliment to her. You could even do this clitoral stimulation before you whip your own pants off in the cuddling stages. Lots to learn dude,,, lots to take in, she might even have some experience so watch out she don't control it and make you come too fast.
judging by what i've read on these forums, the average man can't cum until at least 6 hours in, and not until the girl has had at least 24 orgasms.
1-3 minutes generally isn't enough... from what I've heard from most of the people I've spoken to (I can't speak for the rest of this site haha) 15-45 minutes is an acceptable range, though you should definitely aim higher for the first few times. Obviously, communication is key. So long as you're important to each other she will understand if you need to try a couple of times to get your time up. The only time I've ever slept with a virgin was my first partner, and he told me later that he made it through the half-hour by thinking about the weapons list of his favourite game. x) And yes, masturbating first will help, generally.
Most women don't have vaginal orgasms. Most will have a clitoral orgasm. Give her a clitoral orgasm and she won't care how long you take. When we were first married, I wanted him to be fast because it hurt. Now it's great and I want him to last a bit longer, and he doesn't. It feels good though.
15 to 45 minutes?!? Wow. Australian guys must be supermen! Most recent polls indicate that 7 to 13 minutes is considered "most desirable" by the women surveyed. They also indicated that anything over 13 minutes was "too long". I realize that this doesn't satisfy everybody, but we're talking about a statistical average across a wide research base.
You just gotta take it nice and slow at first, in most cases it'll drive her crazy. After a minute of slow, playful insertion, try to thrust once per second for a bit until you both have a good rhythm going. After that go as fast and hard as you can but keep the rhythm going, keep it up until you cum. Doing this makes it last much longer.
I've noticed with age I can last a good while now or have the ability to retain the orgasm until I'm ready.
It may me skewed a little by the fact that most of my female friends love sex way more than me haha. I wish seven minutes was the ideal range for men sometimes hah. But it does take at least 20 to be "satisfied".
For us it's usually an hour and half by the time we are both there and snoozing or off to do something else if it is day time. He says there is no quickie with me, mind you we haven't aimed for a quickie yet. A few times it was a couple hours or more. He is not any faster then I am and he usually makes me cum first and maybe even after he is done. He can hold back and so can I, it's all about thinking of other stuff while in it if you want to make it last.
