How long have you held out for?

Guys and gals, how long was the longest. You have gone without an orgasm or touching yourself?

I am curious as I am trying to hold out for at least 40 days. The last couple weeks have been extremely tough, which is about the time I joined this form. The other day I was driving a short distance on an uneven road and I thought I was going blow my load in my pants.

If I can make it to April 6 it will be goal achieved. I am so horney and uncomfortable right now that I don't think it would take much for me to throw in the towel at this point.

 

2 days is really pushing it for me. I masturbate at least once a day. A few times a week I do it twice. Sometimes three times.

 

I've never really tried beyond a few days. What is the purpose of this self imposed torture ? That is a big sacrifice for Lent........

 

You have tried for a few days? Why? Was it a bet? Going through a period of self loathing?

 

Hardly self loathing. I think the only times I can remember fairly on purpose was when I was expecting some particular action later in the week that I was saving it up for. Generally when I don't do it for a few days, it's because life is just crazy busy (like this week, and hence, it's been a couple of days), or stressful and I am just worn out or sex is plentiful. But there rarely a time where I say I'm not going to do it. If the mood strikes and I can spend time with it, it's happening. I'm not denying myself, you shouldn't either. Life is short

 

I'm really not sure what your point is in doing that other than being able to say you did it?

 

I agre..

 

It is a matter of practicing self-control, which is good to increase our ability for rectifying, nothing else.

 

You will never catch me denying myself

 

If nothing in the form ends up tripping me up, I am really trying to hold off until 4/6 but getting harder (no pun intended. Well maybe pun intended). But seriously, I am so Randy. I have soft rubbed my cock several times but have had to stop.

I am open to recommendations, in fact I one can say I'm soliciting recommendations or instructions of how I should handle things on 4/6. My original concept was to take a block of time and play with myself edging for a while until the inevitable happens. But open to new ideas or suggestions. If consensus dictates, I will report back here with the results.

 

Longer than three days is rare for me. Anything longer than that I not only get super horny, I’ll also start playing a "how long can I go?" game with myself. Don’t get me wrong, it’s fun, but I’d rather just cum every two days when it permits itself.

 

Hey Jude - thanks for your response. Always good to hear from the other side, the female perspective on things.

Just a quick off-topic note. You were the first person to respond to my very first post when I joined this forum maybe a couple weeks ago. I was extremely nervous and definitely out of my element. But you sort of stepped up and made me feel a lot more comfortable and wrlSo thanks for that. Your thoughts and openness are appreciated!

 

Getting there. Still a little apprehensive that somethings dig pretty deep. But you at least broke the ice for me.

 

Two weeks. Boy did I have fun again after that time frame. lol

 

I went 40 days at the beginning of this year. It wasn't even that hard. I found a kind of peace and inner strength came from it - I know nothing about Buddhism but maybe something like zen? It stopped ruling me and I felt much more in control of my body and my urges it was great.

 

Probably two weeks. And this is happen ending more and more. Stress, home life, whatever.........I'm just not in the mood. We had a rocking sex life years ago, and I'd still do it nightly when on the road. Now I just don't care. Doc says I need a release several times a month for my "health", regardless of how I get it. I felt his pitty when I told him I hadn't had sex in 4 years. Pathetic!

 

I just returned from a two week business venture where there was NO WAY I could have. That was a long time for me!! But damn, when I finally got home it was on!! I couldn't make that thing go away for a whole day! It's was GREAT! 8 times in 12 hours and was still so hard a cat couldn't scratch it so I just kept going...

 

I guess I am too much of a slut to hold out very long.
Maybe three days if I am really busy, it can be about priorities, what is more important,
a few more hours at work or some kind of joy in your life.

 

I vote "joy". But it's usually after work...

 

Somewhere around 4-5 months..but hardly due to self control..Just working too many hours, driving too many hours, and the little time I was home, that was the last thing on my mind lol.