My husband and i have been together for 6 years now, and married for 1 year all of which we have been sexually active. Not sure if we are in the "honeymoon phase" as we have lived together for 4 years, and were in all ways married except on paper. We have had a lull in our sex life once but it was during a very stressful time which we both were depressed, and not physically active. It lasted for about 2 weeks and we only had sex once a week. But in all other times we haven't given each other the elbow. We both enjoy sex and the connection it brings to our relationship. We joke that because our jobs make us apart for periods of time up to 4 days we actually miss each other. There are periods of 4 days monthly we are off work together and home. To be honest I cant imagine it slowing down and a lot of my coworkers joke that once women have kids, the elbow comes out. I pray this isn’t true, but guess we are going to find out in the next couple years hopefully. Most of my coworkers are married and have kids, there are a couple who are DINKS (double income no kids) and we are great friends outside of work. We ALL are scared of this happening. I ask why do people’s sex lives change? Yes children make you tired and take a lot of time but isn’t the key to the families success the original family unit; the original couple. My husband and I hope this wont happen. We both enjoy it and have sex a couple times a day when we are off work together. We don’t want that to end, but having talked to some friends its been weeks for them even months. How depressing! is this common or is my small group of co workers just chumming it up
the last time I had intercourse was early January of this year (it is now Sept 2). So that's a pretty big dry spell. That was the end of a friends with benefits thing I was doing with an ex-girlfriend. We probably had sex about 10 times in 2014 and she was my only partner. So I am pretty focused on masturbation these days as I do not have a partner. There are some potentials out there...but nothing immediate.
My sex life used to be reasonably regular. However, at 63, I'm overweight, diabetic, have SEVERE ED, and am just recovering from a complete left knee replacement. It's been about 4½ months since my wife and I fucked. (Specifically, the last time we fucked was on 9 Dec. 2018.) She misses it and I miss it more. Sex is really important to me that this drought is really depressing.
Diabetes and meds for it really suck. So do blood pressure meds. I'm on both and can relate to the ED issue. Wife too has medical issues so sex is not frequent between us. It is depressing so i do al lot of fantasizing and toy playing. Many times around her. We've learned different ways to find fulfillment. To do that you need to be a bit more open minded and I'm fortunate she is accepting as she is. It's been a while since we had Intercourse and it's not often.
Yesterday. During a rain storm. While the rain pounded the roof,I was pounding my wife. We love rainy days.
So you're still a vaginal virgin and have had only anal sex? How old are you, and why haven't you had vaginal sex?
Just over 4 years now. I tend to go long periods between gfs and I’ve not found anyone I could trust to be a fuck buddy. It’s fine though, porn exists and I’ll wait for another special lady