Lol, it's ok. Someday I'll have an amazing sex marathon with the right person and make up for lost time
No upset at all, 6S. Just injecting a bit of humor into this basically sad situation for us types 'of a certain age'. BTW, just use OGN when writing, saves a lot of time for you.
I already told you privately that I'm not interested. A piece of advice...Just because a woman hasn't had sex in a while and would like to, doesn't mean she is willing to spread her legs for anyone that asks, respect her wishes.
M.G., I've studied Sexuality academically for years. One of the many interesting things is the various terms you ladies use to indicate intercourse. God forbid one should use the term "fucking" or any form of "the F word". So there are many other more delicate phrases in use. Your use of "to spread her legs" is one of them. Another is "to go with", and "bend over for". Wondering if you can add to the collection of these delicate phrases in use?
LMFAO, when I first wrote that post I did in fact use the word "fuck." When I edited it, it wasn't so much to soften the language as it was to be a bit more broad in meaning. "Spread her legs" to me sounds more like allowing access to her genitalia in many types of sexual acts, while "fucking" is not just intercourse but a specific kind of intercourse. When I "fuck" it's more animalistic than when I "make love". It's full of hard thrusting, loud moaning, and unbridled passion. When I "make love," it's about connection to my partner in so many ways not just physical, it's about being sensual not just sexual, it's taking time to indulge in all the sensations of the body. Of course there are a myriad of stages between these to explore and play with. The choice of words is to accurately describe the mood or action. Also, you say that "spread her legs" is a more delicate phrasing but I think context has a lot to do with how words are perceived. Hear an angry man saying, "That bitch will spread her legs for anyone!" and the same words seam much more course. All that being said, it's not the point of this thread but I do like the idea of having a collection of words and phrases referring to sex and all its facets to use in writing. I haven't really thought much about it, when I write words just come to me and if I see myself using certain one repeatedly I usually use a thesaurus to diversify. I'll start a thread in the writer's forum dedicated to this.