how long does it take you to come

masterbating: under a minute
with partner: first time usually after 2 or 3 min.....more depending on how energetic I get

 

That might be true, but as so many other things self control is key

 

I was on that medication for about a year, and i couldent orgasm either.
I went to my doctor and gto switched to effexor, and that wasnt much better..

Then finally after another year I found the solution!!! A medication with only a 5% chance of sexual side effects... and its called.. Novo-bupropion.. Ask your doctor about it..



Back to the main topic..
It used to take me hours to reach climax, somtiems I would just reach climax and not go any furthur then that.. (only from clitoral stimulation).

But ever since I changed my medications, I can reach amazing orgasms within 5-20 min.. (I have learnd to control it).. I havent had sex yet while on my new meds.. but I can wait till I do.. (psstt..Greg) haha

 

Yeah, a seventeen year old boy is gonna be a real expert.

 

Hey, that's just the way it is dude... Besides that has nothing to do with it, I said self control... I've been trying to gain complete control over my body since the age of 7 I think, so yeah... I would have no problems what so ever saying that selfcontrol is key, cause I know

you'd be amazed what you can make your body do if you work with it, not agaist it... Like block out pain

Besides that was a pretty lame answer, I say something relevant, then as a counter arguement you just hit on my age... Well done sir!

 

im a 17 yr old boy. i'd dont think i'd claim to have complete control over my body in the least, but i'd like to think i'm on the right track.

 

Well I'm not saying I'm in total control, but unpleasant pain, in my early teens unwanted erections all that stuff, all that stuff and lots more I'm in control of... But then 10 years that's a lot of practicting Tho I have been sleaking on it the last while

 

I'm just saying that you can't possibly have the experience and emotional maturity necessary yet to make you an expert in bed. Unless you have been a little stud. Granted, I started having sex when I was fourteen, but that's why I am saying this. It still took me quite a few years to feel I really understood the 'ins and outs' of sex. Of course, maybe I was just a slow starter.

 

im with you blackie but i like it like that it just means the love making takes longer

 

ive had a few orgasms from sex. masterbating gets me one faster.

 

theres so many small things that can change how long, but the longest ive lasted having sex was around an hour, and masturebatin(sp?) 30-45mins

 

10 to 15 min