How long do guys last during sex?

I've been disappointed with guys lately. It seems they don't last long at all. Maybe girls are better at sex...I enjoy sessions in bed all night, lasting a couple of hours with multiple orgasms.

 

I've had guys actually last too long. Anti depressants and/or alcohol tend to make them last longer if you want to adjust him a bit.

 

So how much time would be considered too long for a guy to last during sex with you, Jocelyn? An hour? Have you actually had a guy pumping away inside you for that long before cumming?

 

I thought that anti-depressants and alcohol have a negative effect on libido...

 

yeah, and they can also make it take longer to cum.

 

Varies a lot for me. Substance ingestion has a big influence on my staying power, psychedelics being the best.

Assuming equal levels of hornyness, and similar periods of foreplay, my staying power for actual thrusting is kinda like this;

Sober = 3-15 minutes
alcohol = forget it, hate alcohol
weed = 30-60 minutes (why the wife never complains about my smoking )
LSD, Mushooms = 30-90 minutes

and my personal record with the assistance of large dose of mescaline is over 3 hours with lots of position changes and stuff.
Couldn't cum, but had a ton of energy and a steel hard cock.
Wife sure came a LOT though!!

psychedelics make feel very primal and animalistic when it comes to sex and make me very aggressive and last a lonnnggg time. Helps make up for the not so huge dick.

 

5 minutes or up to 20 but I can go again right away after less than 5 minutes. For some reason, this is my secret sexual power. Though I come fairly fast, I can do multiple (MANY) sessions in one night and without much break. This has proved popular with my partners.
I am not the ideal lover, but I try to make up for my deficiencies.

 

my 1st girlfriend complained that i stayed inside her too long. i timed it and generally i was in her for almost an hour(i was 21).

i am almsot 60 now and i stay in my girlfrined and give her pleasure as long as i can, maybe an hour.

i do remember when i was 18 i would want to cum almost as soon as i entered her but i practiced holding back.

just do a lot of practice, if he is not willing, find somebody who is interested in
spending time practicing.

 

Have him get himself off prior to sex, or for more fun, make him finish with your hand or mouth, give him a few minutes, then get him in the mood again.

Ok, maybe you should discuss that part with him, not all guys are ready to go again so soon, but for me, that's usually how it works. 45 minutes of me going down on her, following by 20 minutes or so of her going down on me, one orgasm, 5-10 minutes of relaxing, then penetration in various positions for as long as she can handle (after the first orgasm, I usually can go forever, unless i TRY to make myself cum).

 

Depends on what kind of sex we have I really don't care how long it takes just make me looove it! Sometimes he cums before me i dont mind but it's what happens during that counts for me. Grab me toss me fuck me love me bend me forward backwards sideways. It's all good

 

My current boyfriend, I know how to make him come within 5-10 minutes using a particular position. So I tend to avoid that position until we're both ready for him to come.

 

I learned to control my orgasms when I was young, so I'm pretty flexible in that area. I also have a relatively short refractory period. If I'm really turned-on, I can sometimes just keep on going for a second round. I didn't have a refractory period at all when I was a kid, and even after I reached puberty it was only about 10 minutes long. I'm now in my mid-50s & it's still about the same. Hope it stays that way! I love to time things so that my partner & I reach orgasm together.

 

I can last as long as I want. 5mins or hours.

 

Yeah...the SSRI antidepressants cause delayed ejaculation.
Tell him to go to a Doctor and complain that he's depressed. If he takes Zoloft or Celexa, he'll be lasting a real long time.

 

I last anywhere from 1-3 min with hard thrusting. Its embarrassing.