how is your relationship with your ex(s)??

yup.. that's what friends for.... not ex... he/she couldn't give you a right answer after what you and your ex been through... or I am just bitter...

 

I still talk to every single ex on occassion. Have them all on the site that I think Skip has forbidden being spoken of (hehehe)

...Can't stand my first ex, he's incredibly immature and everything I say freaks him out (all the people from RT should well know how I am by now, lol).

My second ex and I are really great friends, he's one of my boyfriend's best friends, and we go on double dates now...it's like we never even dated.

My 3rd...was my first love and man...I left him a note on the forbidden site and he deleted it. Probably to keep his gf from seeing it. Whatever, just telling him I miss him being around. If he took it as anymore than that, he has to get over himself.

4th ex has been way too busy with his fancy schmancy rich pants family to have much to do with me since he went away to school. No biggy on my end, don't want his holier(more like richer)-than-thou-art mother on my ass. Word to the wise...if you don't come from money, stay the hell away from someone who does. Their mother will make you miserable.

Lucky number 5 and my boyfriend used to be best friends, but due to some awkward feelings, the hang outs have been few and far between. He's a sweetheart, though, and when we got into our wreck back in February, he was the only person I knew to call and he came right over, no questions asked. But now he's got a new girlfriend, so he's got no time for anyone else. Oh well...that'll change, always does. Heh.

That's pretty much it...so...I still talk to them all occassionally, some more than others. I try to keep some sort of ties to them all because no matter what, they'll always be part of my past, and they'll always have a place in my heart where they left footprints...cheesy as that is.

 

LOL. My boyfriend's mother makes my life miserable because I don't come from money... sad part is we had more money than them growing up (my parents still do, but I didn't choose a high paying job). She always wanted her children to marry into money. She practically pimped out her daughter to the rich boy in town. They are always trying get rich quick schemes and I think marrying money is one of them. Hasn't panned out yet though. LOL.

 

Ack, my ex was given $1,000 to do what he pleased with the summer after he graduated high school and he decided he wanted to go on a roadtrip with me and his best friend and his wife, and his mom got into it and claimed that my parents would sue them for statutory rape and blah blah blah. I was 17, which is the legal age of consent in Texas, and we hadn't even had sex when this was going on! In fact, that was what pushed us to fool around, we figured, if she's going to bitch, might as well give her a real reason. Anyway, in a big middle finger to her, we ran off to Dallas, spent a week there, and tried to win her back over by buying her a cheap frog statue for her garden. Haha.

The funniest thing is, my boyfriend's ex-fiancee's family was like that, too. Her mother came from a ton of money and her father was in the military. Her father was the bread-bringer, while her mother was a spoiled bitch, and eventually she decided to tear them apart, so they claimed he beat her and tried to take him to court. 3 years later, he's STILL trying to pick up the pieces. He has to take a battery intervention course over a series of 6 months now(something he was not informed of long ago when this all went on). It's ridiculous, too, because he has scars from that night because she attacked him. He didn't hit her at all, she hurt herself in the process, and then left. She was abusive, but...welcome to Texas, if you're a guy and get hit by a girl, you get laughed at. If you're a girl and claim a guy hit you, proof or not, he goes to jail.

 

Haha. Yeah, thats what I meant. More like, Don't want to know WHO they are fucking up with right now.

Thanks!

 

im not friends with any of my ex's...i would like to become friends but i had feelings for them but they or i broke it so i guess we dont talk

 

I heard that so many times, from so many different people and thought it was just sour grapes until my marriage went tits up.

People who I worked with sat down with me and told me of their stories, of dealing with psycho chicks who pulled shotguns on them and the cops always arresting the guy, kicking him outa the house with restraining orders. Don't matter if they're psycho or causing the trouble they got the TX law on their side.

And yet I still wanna go back. Maybe I'm crazy.

 

Ive got a few Ex's the others i cant get rid of coz they all go to the same school as i do and the most recent one i talk to purly out of the fact that he comes around our house asking my mum for shit and winging all the time. I hate him.

 

If a person goes on and on about how they hate their ex-they are far from over that relationship and still locked into it.
Yes-we can Hate how they treated us but there is no such thing as a BAD person-just people who do bad things to them selves and others.
I still love most of my exs-but i'm not IN LOVE with them-Big difference.

 

LOL LOL Or how about do you think you should warn others so they don't get screwed like you did?
I say let everyone see what their own experiences are with them.
LOL Who know's maybe they like being lied to about everything? LOL

 

Haven't seen or heard from my exes in years. I'm on good terms with them, though.

 

I tend to avoid my exs a bit because I have a bad track record of them wanting me back. Every relationship I've had has ended with every intention of remaining friends, and I'm cool with that. But then if we ever do get in touch, they nearly always start heartaching about wanting to get back together - even if it was their call to end the relationship. One girlfriend left me for another guy, had his baby, and was phoning me a couple of years later with leading questions about how I might feel about having an instant family. I find it all very uncomfortable, and put myself through a guilt trip for rejecting women I otherwise care about. So now I do the cowardly thing and leave no loose ends (as in cut contact altogether, not weight the bodies so they don't float back up )

 

For the most part no. Except for two. One for old time's sake but I was appalled at the state he's in recently. The second in sporadic intervals - the last time we spoke it was doubly awkward because he kept recalling things from a long time ago, and I couldn't remember or didn't want to talk about it.

 

Well, about a year ago, my wife and I seperated. We disconnected finances and cooperated about those things we couldn't disconnect. We filed a joint tax return. We figured that it would be best NOT to tell the insurance company to change our rate. We were determined to have a civilized divorce. But there was no big hurry to make the divorce legal.

We both are deep into the Whole Earth Festival. We were both on this year's staff and although we were distant, we worked well together. So well, that some folks didn't realize that we had seperated.

The after-retreat was at a hot springs that we had visited (frequently) when we were together. As chance happened, we were in the (un)dressing room at the same time. Later, in the pool, we talked and found that the nostagia of the place had reminded each of us that, even with the other problems, the sex had been good. That's when things started being confusing.

Currently, we sleep together on weekends (some weekdays, my apartment has AC, hers doesn't). The sleeping and waking up together is as important us as the sex. I have re-discovered that it is nice to have someone to do favors for. We both regret that we haven't YET figured out how to live with each other. Each of us is not sure how hard we want to work on our living together skills. Its confusing, but much better than it was a year ago and much much better than 2 years ago.

 

I dunno man, I talk to a few but I'm not close mates with any of them. I dont think its fair to keep your ex hanging around if youre with another person

 

How is my relationship with my exs?

See Phish's song "Talk".

 

i am like best friends with my ex...we are still there for eachother when someone needs to talk as wired as that is...but i almost liek it better that we are suuch good friends than i did when we were dating...lol

 

i just think its aweful to be so close to someone for so long and then break up and be strangers, as if that closeness never happened at all. and so its easier to try and forget about it all.