How Hard ?

How hard on yourself are you?

 

About 8 inches.

 

not very. I cut myself a lot of slack.

 

Are you harder on other people?

 

On hot girls, yes.

 

not really. Sometimes I think I am too hard on my boyfriend about things but that's only because I care

 

I'm very, very hard on myself. My husband and the rest of the family are constantly telling me that I'm way too hard on myself, but, I can't help it.

I'm not hard on others at all. I'm a total softie.

 

I find it difficult to expect something from somebody else unless I'm capable of it
So I suppose I fall into that decently hard on myself category
*strive for perfection*

even if it doesn't exist...
I guess I might be a lil hard on my boyfriend but I rationalize it pretty well just because I know he's damn near perfect so I can expect only the best from him =D
*yay for unattainable goals*

 

how many of you are virgos??

I am one, so I am definitely critical of other people, but even more so on myself

 

Oo .... yea I'm a Virgo

 

thats a HUGE part of it.

many people dont like how critical you are on them, but what they dont realize is that us virgos are more critical on ourselves, and set a high standard for ourselves

 

i'm extremely hard on myself and very relaxed on other people...
i do sometimes expect things of others, and when those things aren't met i am disappointed...but i usually take it out on myself...

 

i go back and forth on how hard or soft i am for myself. if i'm hard on myself, then i tend to be hard on others, if i'm just relaxing and not worrying about much about myself, i dont' worry much about other people....but i switch very often, multiple times per week.


and it depends on what i'm being hard on about...certain things just really get to me, while other things that i may be hard on myself for, are just really meaningless to others

 

I'm a Leo, my husband is a Virgo!

 

are Gemini's supposed to be particularly hard?

 

I am very judgemental of myself and get caught up in rat wheels of self defeating thoughts. The smallest thing that I do wrong could lead me into very dark moments of self-hatred. This is something I am working very hard upon and have come a super long way. But yes, everyone tells me I am too hard upon myself...I say I am just looking at the reality. However if it were another than I wouldn't judge them so harshly....that is of course unless I take it personally...then its a battle. Mama's got some issues

 

very very hard on myself. me and guilt are bestest firends. scorpio here, not virgo. but if im not hard o nmyself no one will be

 

who cuts themself? no clue but ill be hard on you. my self expectations are low as are my expectations of udders. as long as folks buy there own junk n dont murder folks im ok.also rape is a no no. ya im pretty easy on folks.i guess if a friend is selling there children id get upset. making me listen to emo or pop music. that or pissin in my booze.

 

low expectations are the way to go...

 

absolutely no harder then i can ever get away with not being.

it is meaningless to beat yourself over the head after you have caused harm or suffering to others or embarrasment to yourself.

the point is to AVOID doing these things in the first place, so that you'll have no reason to feel that you need to.

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