How Hard ?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by come_do_drawrings, Apr 26, 2007.

  1. come_do_drawrings

    come_do_drawrings Jaime

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    How hard on yourself are you?
     
  2. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    About 8 inches.
     
  3. masterofpuppest

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    not very. I cut myself a lot of slack.
     
  4. come_do_drawrings

    come_do_drawrings Jaime

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    Are you harder on other people?
     
  5. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    On hot girls, yes.
     
  6. masterofpuppest

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    not really. Sometimes I think I am too hard on my boyfriend about things but that's only because I care [​IMG]
     
  7. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I'm very, very hard on myself. My husband and the rest of the family are constantly telling me that I'm way too hard on myself, but, I can't help it.

    I'm not hard on others at all. I'm a total softie.
     
  8. come_do_drawrings

    come_do_drawrings Jaime

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    I find it difficult to expect something from somebody else unless I'm capable of it
    So I suppose I fall into that decently hard on myself category
    *strive for perfection*

    even if it doesn't exist...
    I guess I might be a lil hard on my boyfriend but I rationalize it pretty well just because I know he's damn near perfect so I can expect only the best from him =D
    *yay for unattainable goals*
     
  9. madcrappie

    madcrappie crazy fish

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    how many of you are virgos??

    I am one, so I am definitely critical of other people, but even more so on myself
     
  10. come_do_drawrings

    come_do_drawrings Jaime

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    [​IMG] Oo .... yea I'm a Virgo
     
  11. madcrappie

    madcrappie crazy fish

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    thats a HUGE part of it.

    many people dont like how critical you are on them, but what they dont realize is that us virgos are more critical on ourselves, and set a high standard for ourselves
     
  12. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    i'm extremely hard on myself and very relaxed on other people...
    i do sometimes expect things of others, and when those things aren't met i am disappointed...but i usually take it out on myself...
     
  13. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    i go back and forth on how hard or soft i am for myself. if i'm hard on myself, then i tend to be hard on others, if i'm just relaxing and not worrying about much about myself, i dont' worry much about other people....but i switch very often, multiple times per week.


    and it depends on what i'm being hard on about...certain things just really get to me, while other things that i may be hard on myself for, are just really meaningless to others
     
  14. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I'm a Leo, my husband is a Virgo!
     
  15. come_do_drawrings

    come_do_drawrings Jaime

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    are Gemini's supposed to be particularly hard? :(
     
  16. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    I am very judgemental of myself and get caught up in rat wheels of self defeating thoughts. The smallest thing that I do wrong could lead me into very dark moments of self-hatred. This is something I am working very hard upon and have come a super long way. But yes, everyone tells me I am too hard upon myself...I say I am just looking at the reality. However if it were another than I wouldn't judge them so harshly....that is of course unless I take it personally...then its a battle. Mama's got some issues;)
     
  17. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    very very hard on myself. me and guilt are bestest firends. scorpio here, not virgo. but if im not hard o nmyself no one will be
     
  18. jonnydisaster5

    jonnydisaster5 Member

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    who cuts themself? no clue but ill be hard on you. my self expectations are low as are my expectations of udders. as long as folks buy there own junk n dont murder folks im ok.also rape is a no no. ya im pretty easy on folks.i guess if a friend is selling there children id get upset. making me listen to emo or pop music. that or pissin in my booze.
     
  19. alex714

    alex714 To the Left

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    low expectations are the way to go...
     
  20. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    absolutely no harder then i can ever get away with not being.

    it is meaningless to beat yourself over the head after you have caused harm or suffering to others or embarrasment to yourself.

    the point is to AVOID doing these things in the first place, so that you'll have no reason to feel that you need to.

    =^^=
    .../\...
     

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