Suncatch - your poet has probably refined his line so well that he knows how to get women. He is a poseur, and uses his sensitivity and his poetry to attract women who want to mother him and hold him to make him better. He really is just a sea slug with a dick (and a diseased one at that). And I doubt if he has ever published any of his poetry.
You'll get over this and be a much stronger person for the experience. If you were meant to be, you will be. but I don't think you are hun. I think you will meet a wonderful man sometime in the future. maybe tomorrow maybe a month from now maybe 5 years from now but it will happen for you, I just know it. just have faith in yourself, and remember that you are a great person, you are just going through a hard time. if you ever need to talk i am here.