It must feel awesome. Wish I had been born a girl and I am a straight guy. It's just, you feel very valuable when are a female born. I wouldn't have been desperate if I'd been born a girl.
But yeah I'm very happy to be a woman. But fuck off because you have no idea what you're talking about. There are plenty of times where being patronized, or being under estimated, ignored in debate, or just feeling like I want to cry all day because of hormones has made me wish I was male. Stop imagining one gender has it easy. No one has it easy.
You could go to a Chinese orphanage and ask all of the unwanted baby girls in there if they feel valued for being female born. Desperate for what?
Jane would agree with you on that one, LOL You forgot to mention being desperate to avoid guys who wanted to use you and then run for the hills at the first sign of any commitment. PS, you also forgot all the fun of a baby kicking you from the inside for about 6 months when you are trying to sleep and then trying to get out feet first. That is the point where you know that the clumsy oaf must be a boy.
His mindset on this revolves around sex and seems very one dimensional. If you are a woman you feel a lot of self worth and value according to OP, because you can get sex any time you want. I'm not sure he has more nuanced thoughts about this, like if it matters if the sex or sexual partner is satisfactory in any way. You just can get sex when you want it. This obviously matters a lot to a sexually frustrated man. In most countries boys/men are perceived at least as valuable at birth and in adult life so yeah, im not sure if there's more to it than sex
I am starting to feel the same way with this spate of recent posts. I am not sure whether people are really that stupid, or whether they are posting rubbish for the sheer sake of it.
I am convinced there are a lot of men who think this simple. But not sure why they formulate it as stupid and repetitive as Grandeur. I only give him the benefit of doubt because english is not his first language and he isn't from a western country. Otherwise I would conclude he's trolling/trying to get a rise out of people here.
How does it feel to be a man? That would be a tough question for me to answer, since I've never been anything else. It feels fine, because I'm basically satisfied with my life and who I am. If I weren't, I might feel desperate. As I understand it, from reading past posts on other threads, Grandeur has a drinking problem, which may explain why he feels desperate--or vice versa.. Not sure what, if anything, this has to do with sex or gender, but it they're a basic part of who he is, and if he doesn't like that he might long for any change. This reminds me of a discussion I had with a group at church on the subject of race. The question came up, do white people have a special responsibility to do something about the problem of racial injustice, since they caused it? One woman commented that she, as an individual, hadn't done anything to cause it, and although she may have benefited from it, nothing she could do could eliminate the fact that she was white. Therefore, she didn't regard it as her special problem. I feel the same way about being a man.
Why do you think this way? My thoughts will be same in every langauge. I just think it is a lot better to be a woman. Reasons, First, You will have no problem of getting beaten up when you try to talk to the opposite gender. As a man, I can get beaten up for that, which is called harrasment when you are a man. And other men should beat you up. When you are a woman, you are free to do so. Second, You will have no problem with either getting relationship or sex when you are woman. You wont have to keep masturbating at home if you have any sex desire. You rule when you are a woman. World goes around you already while men will be desperate and keep masturbating even in their 30s unless they are married. 3rd, In traffic, for instance, when other people curse at you for some reasons, you cant curse them back when you are a man unless you are a good fighter or want to get beaten up by them. If you are a woman, you can curse them back. Most of the men wont try to attack a woman. 4th, Women can use their femininity to get what they want. Because men, who are desperate, will let it. I do seriously think that female is the valuable gender while male is the desperate gender. Women are a lot more choosy than men. While men desire the majority of women, women desire the minority of men. While having a pussy means a lot, having a penis means nothing. Why are people angry with me telling the truths. In Turkey, we have a saying. Instead of having big properties, have a small vagine the size of a nut. But this saying is for female borns, not for trans.
If I am to translate it more turkish like. This saying is exaclty that, Instead of having a big property the size of the world, have a small vagina the size of a nut.
That makes me understand your feelings better now. Turkey has a somewhat unique culture among men and one that I an sorry to say that I don't like. However, you should read all the replies, many women in western Europe and the US see things very differently.
Because you have issues with how you see and experience things, ask or tell us here and don't take any of the feedback to heart. Basically you act that your one dimensional perception on men and women is an objective assertion, regardless what other people tell you, + you keep repeating it. A troll would do the same. A troll might also assume a foreign or sinpleton identity so his use of words are taken with a grain of salt and people still take him seriously where otherwise they would have given up.