I am very new to this and would like to explore my bi side with someone who is like me, married and would like to keep it that way but I don't know how to take the first step. Any advice? How did it happen for you?
I admit I am a cocksucker and married ; as to your question there are websites and personal ads to meet other Married:
Hi, I am married and had my first, and so far only, bi relationship with a guy from the office. My wife was away and just before Christmas and we had an office party. We all got pretty drunk and he offered to make sure I got back home ok. When we got home I went to have a shower and for whatever reason when I went back to the kitchen I only wore a pair of underpants. It was summer so very hot in the house! In hindsight I guess I was horny and also interested in showing as much as possible. I had an idea he might be bi as well. The alcohol had loosened me up a bit of course! I suggested that he might want to have a shower as well to freshen up. He went and showered and returned also just in underpants. We sat watching tv for a while and had a few more drinks. His barefoot touched mine a few times which made my already semi-hard cock go harder. I guess we were both horny and trying to see if there was interest mutually. After this had gone on for a while I said that I needed to get some sleep and headed to the bedroom. Casually I said he could sleep in the spare room or join me. He followed me to the bedroom, I turned the light off, and we got into bed, both naked. As soon as we were in bed I started stroking his cock and he soon reciprocated. I guess within minutes we were in a 69 and loving every moment of it. It was my first time sucking cock and also his. I found it hard (in more ways than one) sucking his as he has a 8.5" uncut cock. We both blew in each others mouths after a short time. The next morning we repeated this all over again and even kissed and licked each others bodies. I drove him home to his wife mid-morning. That was around 12 years ago. I am still happily married. He is divorced, re-married and now separated. As far as I am aware I am his only bi relationship. We meet up every so often. I work overseas a lot so sometimes it can be a couple of months between catchups. Other times twice in a week! We meet at his house now. He is usually naked when I get to the door. I am usually naked within a minute of going in the door! We stay naked all the time and have a lot of fun. We still talk about that drunken night where it all started!
Where is a good place to post a personal ad. Tried craigslist and got responses from some pretty aggressive guys who wanted to come over to my house an have their dick sucked.
Nowadays is harder and harder to find someone. I am now trying sites like gayreign.com and livejasmin to find a guy that want to experiment. But these are not really helping. Do you guys have other resources where we can really find?
I too am married, wife does not know about what I want to try and it is hard to get away alone. I have been curious for some time now and moved from the city to a small town but living in a small town makes it real hard to find another married guy to try with as it is hard to keep secrets in a small town LOL. I have looked at some adult sites and have E-Mailed with guys, like myself, in other towns not too far away but still have not had the chance to meet. For me, it has to be another married guy that wants to keep it just between him and I and not looking for a long term relationship. Over the years, I have had guys, that I had met while working, do oral on me but now that my wife and I are both retired and I want to try it myself, It is real hard to find an excuse to get away - alone. Try looking at some sites for bi curious and see if you can find a guy near you and if you are still working, do it before you retire and can't get away. Don't wait too long. If you want to do it - do it now. Good luck and have fun.
for me I used craigslist and posted an ad of exactly what I wanted, just someone to "jerk off with" at first. This led to further exploring and then me enjoying getting sucked.