How Do You Think About Things Other Than Sex?

How do you put yourself to it?

 

Try reading poetry, write, get into painting. Do something physical.

 

How do you keep your focus while doing that? I mean, when you have urges but you want to be productive instead?

 

By forcing yourself. If that that doesn't work take a walk around the park.

To be honest it never completely goes away. Watching porn and masturbate if you have to. The thought is not something you can simply opt out of, it takes work. There is no magic bullet.

 

I think it must a pretty miserable life to be thinking of sex the whole time that you cannot concentrate on anything else. That's what being 15 year old boy is all about.

First starters try exercising. Exercising will get you healthier. Being healthier will give you confidence and having confidence is all important in the bedroom.

Find an interest that has nothing to do with sex. I play on pool tables. There's absolutely nothing sexual about it. Que the cue and ball jokes... aside...

Cook good food. You've got other senses other than sexual and taste is magnificent.

Speaking of other senses... listen to story telling music, or euphoric ambience. Meditate to it. Meditate to something truly beautiful that has nothing to do with sex.

Unless you've just left home and have the urge to have sex all the times there's an abundance of activities.

Seriously, the whole sexual nature of people nowadays is off putting to me. Though I mean you've probably come to the right place because there's other mindless fools with nothing to talk about other than sex here too. I find it very boring.

 

i don't really understand the question. how do you not think about things other than sex? i can only imagine this being a problem if you are locked in solitary confinement and have literally nothing else going on in your life whatsoever. and even then, i think my mind would wander to non-sexual things fairly often.

 

Whatever it is, I just form it into the shape of a cock

Tax return pages, forcing myself to eat broccoli, laudry soap liquid .

If your try make yourself stop thinking about something you will just think about it more.

 

I just masturbate and get it over with. Do the "deed" get it out of your system and move on to something else. If sex is on your mind 24/7 try a sex addict hotline, I mean I used to be really into masturbation and sleeping with men when I was in my late 20's early 30's, sometimes you just need to go through it.

Or like others said, exercise, or getting some fresh air, or even taking a shower to "cleanse" yourself usually helps.

 

You get a job in the adult entertainment industry and then you can label your non stop sexual thoughts as a work requirement, then you can say you can not stop thinking about work

 

I hear playing WOW may help.

 

haha, on second thought maybe not. in fact any video game where you will be looking at the back side of a scantily clad hot female is a bad idea.

so no Old school tomb raider, Elder Scrolls, heavenly sword, etc.

 

"The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it." - Oscar Wilde

 

listen to music

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHW9K9IvibI

 

It's just really easy for me to suppress those thoughts when I need to. I just force myself to think about something else.
Of course, I'm just good at suppressing thoughts in general. Even though I try not to do it too much.

 

You'll outgrow it.

 

Tis Easy To Think About Other Than Sex When You Haven't Had Sex For ...???.... Years...... :bigcry: :bigcry:



Cheers Glen.

 

I can't help it. Sometimes I'm hungry and I tried eating during sex but it usually gets a mess on my bed so I have learned to just eat and worry about only that until I am done

 

I try to think about Elvis
Memphis
Oprah in the afternoon
I try to think about palm trees
Fig leaves
The creature from the black lagoon
I try to think about high heels
And good deals
Anything to get me through

I try to contemplate the cosmos
What goes
Round and round the sky at night
I try to think about champagne
Freight trains
Slowly rolling out of sight
I try to focus on the headlines
Street crimes
Everytime I think I might

Thanks to Patty Loveless - "You're All I Think About These Days"

 

deadpool is the only other thing i think about