How do you sweet talk a guy?

So my guy sweet talks me sometimes and he's really good at it. Like take your breath away good. He says he would enjoy it if I did as well... But I'm really not amazing with words and I also feel like he has an advantage over me. It's easy for him to call me beautiful, etc. But what can a girl say to a guy?
"ooh yer sho handshome!" :love:
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Guys, what do you want to hear? I've tried a few things, but he just seems creeped out... And please no "just tell him his dick is the biggest you've ever seen," because that is not the type of thing he's asking for.

 

My girl does the left-right hook thing. Tells me I'm the best boyfriend in the world (jab), and then says she wants my dick inside her ass that night (upper cut).

That does the trick. I feel it coming at me from all sides.

 

Chearea has it right, most guys are pretty simple...I can't say anyone has ever taken my breath away with their words (sexual word no included)...he sounds like he might be in the minority so find out what he loves about himself and play off that. All people like to have others reinforce their positive self image of themselves. And if that's too hard or you can't figure it out..LEFT-RIGHT HOOK!

 

Hmmm.

Go specific, like comment on a specific physical feature that you like. (eyes, his use of a certain word, hair, the way he smells the the response that triggers in you).

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FYI who are you with now? Last I remember you were torn between two different guys...

 

I'm a little unconventional when it comes to my sweet talking. I'll walk into the room and say "Hey babe?" like I would say it if I were going to ask him where he put something. When he says what? I'll say "You're fuckin hot. That's all" then walk out. Maybe not the kind of sweet talking you are looking for but it works for us. Also another thing that works is if you kiss his neck and whisper in his year. It doesn't even matter what you say at that point. You could be talking about how much you love it when he takes the garbage out but if you are kissing his neck and breathing in his ear he won't care what you're saying.

 

fondle his weiner.

 

Would work for me. When did I get so easy?

 

Most men are pretty easy

 

Can't believe you just compared me to most men. Instant rubbery one. You're 1 for 2.

 

I fail! Sorry. I don't know you yet!

 

The secret is not talking

Just a sweet smile rub his tummy, tickle his balls

 

Honestly he probably gets creeped out because you feel awkward about it, and he senses that.

When ever he tells you you're beautiful, its because he believes so - I would imagine. He's expressing whats on his mind and how he feels. Flattery is about being liberal with compliments. If you feel awkward doing this, maybe practice on a friend? Make someone's day and make a point to say 2 flattering, nice sentences to them.

Some sweet talk I have used:

Your hair looks good like that. - then touch/stroke his hair and smile at him.

Your eyes are so deep blue, I love them. - then eskimo kiss

I love how tall you are, its so attractive and helps when I need to reach things. - which is just silly and flirty but a compliment at the same time.


Some less superficial sweet talk:

Babe I just wanna say you've been working so hard lately, I'm really proud of you. - note his accomplishments and praise him for them.

Tell him you love him, and the ways he makes you happy. I usually tell my fiancé how much I appreciate him, and how he's such a good listener. I ask him for his advice on things (which isn't necessarily sweet talk but will stroke his ego because you even went to him). Sometimes I don't even need the advice, but I ask him anyway just so he's and feels important. I'll ask, and say "ohh you're so right babe thank you, what would I do without you?" then kiss him.

 

Thats what she said

gaaaah, no that ones about you. Praise him for the stuff he does for you, the things he pays for. How is that not demeaning.

Like when your dog brings back the frisbee, little pat on the head "You're such a CLEVER boy, yes you are"

 

Wtf are you talking about? "Stuff that he pays for"

Dude, your mind sometimes gets far ahead of you.:dizzy2:


You turn praising a persons accomplishments and hard work toward their goals into selfish and demeaning? Okie dokie then, cuckoo cuckoo.

 

how to sweet talk a guy? easy. stroke his ego, tell him how talent and smart he is especially when he fixes things....

 

Sweet talking a guy is actually simple. We're very simple creatures, and despite what most women think, we notice the small things too. I think men have a constant insecurity about being good at something; from work, to being a good boyfriend/husband/lover, and very other important task. This goes for me as well. So I've noticed that in hindsight, the things that really struck me in the heart (in a good way) were simple compliments that made me feel adequate. When someone said to me, "I think it's really amazing that you can do that"....or "I love how you protect me"...those little things that make us feel adequate, mentally-strong, and efficient are the ones that really hit home. Tell your boyfriend how good he is at the small things. He may not so much to you at the time, but I guarantee you he'll be thinking about it for a while - and feeling nice and warm inside Good luck...

 

You know him, tell him whatever you can think of to describe how he makes you feel. Examples: "I find myself at a loss for words because you are so poetic, it touches my soul and renders me speechless" or "When you kiss me it takes my breath away" or "When you touch me I cannot think straight, all I can focus on is the heat of your hand on my bare skin" or "The sound of your voice as you whisper in my ear is hypnotic" or "I feel so safe and love wrapped in your arms" and so on.

 

I always feel weirded out by compliments. For me ,the biggest compliment is the look on her face when we are together and i know she's happy. I'd keep it simple something like "You look hot today. I'd almost consider doing you." Less is more. IMO.

 

Thank you all for your responses. Like most on here, this has been a hilarious and illuminating thread.

 

I love how you protect me sounds so ridiculous to me