How do you prepare for anal sex?

I'm a girl, I like anal, and I can tell you that cleaning the insides takes a whole lot of worry out of the experience. Once I started prepping first, my enjoyment of anal multiplied by a hundred.

 

With plenty of foreplay, applying water based lube (essential if using condoms), inside & out, first with a single finger, the with 2 fingers - perhaps even with 3, in order to relax the rectum & get it prepared to accept the penis.

Apply the head of a well lubed penis at a 90 degree angle before slowly thrusting forward. I have found the Missionary Position to be best for this - otherwise, if the angle is out the penis tends to slip away before getting a chance to begin the penetration.

 

I think the most important prep is actually wanting to do it.
Nothing ruins sex of any description more than unresponsiveness and tension and reluctance by either partner.

As for physical prep - I did/do very little except make sure my exterior is nice and clean. My interior has always seemed to look after itself.
Never been any real accidents.

But for so many, the physical prep actually sets the scene for my major prep. They feel okay about themselves participating.

 

I am with you on this, just the thought of not being clean inside and worrying about any leaks or nasty stuff popping out definately takes the fun and pleasure out of it.

for those who think preparing before the act takes the fun out of it, then you obviously have not done a nice preparation workout with your partner.

preparing is all part of the fun, we get a kick out of doing enema's on each other, can be quite funny at times injecting the warm water or salene (if thats what you prefer) into your partners anus and getting them to hold it, then let it rip from one end of the bath to the other.

i think i have some pics floating around on a portable drive that i took of my wife gushing a stream out of her butt (it was clean)

tis all part of the overall fun of the act.

 

like i said before - smaller smooth dildo in the shower first, if its dirty, clean relube a little reinsert, keep doing til its clean, then do some more to get as much lube back out (dont want to have a lube enema going on lol) - bonus: you are already prelubed inside even tho not outside - then he goes down on me back there gets the outside all slippery and im already slippery inside, no new lube needed! win! (mentioned this in another thread here, since this question "how to prepare for anal" has to be about the oldest sex question on the internet