How do you men feel about aggressive women

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i think it's great for women to be assertive, not aggresstive toward men. i always asked men out on dates when i was single , why wait for them? that's how i met my great husband by asking him out, he loved it and it was a compliment to him, i never got a refusal by any man that i asked out. more women should do it, it would make the sexes more equal.
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i think sometimes its great if my girlfriend takes over but only sometimes. i like to be dominant most of the time. but if she wants to im not gonna say no/not enjoy

 

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Oh hell...I LOVE aggressive women!

Some of the most intense fucks I've ever had were from girls that pissed me off.

 

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I think I appreciate an advance from a woman. The point is how aggressive she is supposed to be. I don't like the type that push you on the bed
Unless there is a lot of complicity of course!
The fact is that women are just beginning what men do since centuries and it is normal they are not comfortable with it yet. On the other side many of us guys could be not comfortable with a too much aggressive advance.
I mean you don't know how to say "I want you" and we don't know how to say "no thank you". It's a matter of language!
To a man just an encouragement, some words, an open smile a glance of complicity would be more than welcome. Too few women dare this or more.
In a ongoing relationship things are different. You can do anything at the right time.
Personally I prefer graduality... a touch or something that is going to let me understand what you are thinking about.
Anyway again: women here have to learn to control their pride and know that it is normal sometime to be rejected. Think how many time a man is. At least two in a second!

 

I agree completely. Only in this case, he actually ASKED her to do things like that and rejected her. Men need to learn how to be more aware of the power they have over our whole being. The old self esteem hits rock bottom after an instance like that, and it effects us on multiple levels. Well, this man anyway..I can't generalize like that.

 

Ok I made a general post but even speaking of that particular case I think it is just a little misunderstanding. I think your sister is way to anxious about that.
For me it doesn't matter if he asked for that. It is just a detail.
For example with just a bit more common sense she could pick a better time to do the same thing. Not when he was just going fast asleep but after some hours to wake him.
Also he didn't strangled her I hope... and understand... but talked to her gently she was tired and wanted to sleep. Didn't he?
The max I can say is that if that was the first time she took the courage to do a thing like that perhaps he could even let her do, but anyway he decided to be sincere with her. Where is the scandal? When a rejection is honest it is ok.
Notice that in my previous post I wrote: "In a ongoing relationship things are different. You can do anything at the right time". Wew what a luck I didn't forget to specify "at the right time" . For me is it obvious that the right time must be right for both the two persons. (And eventually: supposing this is surely right for the one who make the advance... is too see if it is right for the one who receive it. That is the one to be respected).
Now let's go very clear: if you can say that that particular man is a s*it well I don't know. If you want to say or have elements to say he did all just to make her feel humiliated. Than you could be right. Otherwise simply.. it was not the right time. It may happen. And it happens all the time. Just explain this to your sister.
This is my honest opinion. Hope this will help. Peace.

 

I prefer assertive. aggressive implies nasty violence. I can do without that. But assertive women challenge a man, and men like challenges. the way they shake your hand is a turn on. getting made by an assertive woman is a real riot.

the problem they run into - sometimes - is with orgasm. now you have to go after your orgasm which requires assertivenss, but sometimes that only leasds to a dead end. sometimes female orgasm requires submission, passivity, and no willfulness - gotta let it happen by itself !

so I guess there are pluses and minuses....but mostly pluses!!

 

I'm thinking about this...

Yep, I agree. He could've taken that blowjob. Trust me, sometimes we guys are at our horniest when we're tired(unless, of course, it only happens to me). My speculation is that fatigue somehow "weakens" the mental block we put up against sexual stimuli during the day. Plus, you've said repeatedly that he was the one nagging about it for a really long time. Considering that, I say he was being selfish for not accepting her offer(which I find to be rather generous especially considering she'd struggled to make the decision).

That's what I think, anyway.

 

He had to accept he should accept, hey... if she asked me or alternative thinker the situation could go differently. I even like to make some uh-uh before sleeping. But that's not a thing that may interest you. Is it? Yes if he was aware of the horrible psychologic conseguences he was going to cause to her "supersensible spontaneous wife"... perhaps... COME ON let's go! We are now talking about transparent smoke and climbing mirrors. In my opinion she has problems with sex and he... too...! That is not surely spontaneity that's a plan which went wrong. That's all. If these are the silly things them couples speak about all the time nowadays... then I understand why divorcing is so common!

 

haha, if I hadn't slept for 2 weeks and I just got to sleep, then my baby woke me up with a blowjob... I'd still be more than happy

sleep doesn't really matter that much to me, if I'm sleeping and sara came home in the middle of the night and wanted sex, she'd just have to wake me up and I'd be ready

 

*writes that down*