its VERY important to me that who ever im with initiates it at LEAST 10 percent of the time. since im the hornier of hte two, it can't be expected more than that, but i do need to feel like im wanted and am not just a horny freak. as far as her waking him up with a blowjob, it depends on when he woud have to get up. like if he had to be at work in 5 hrs or so for a laboursome job in the morning, or if he didnt sleep much the night before then sometimes you DO just want to go to bed, if he had of been cooking or watching t.v. i think her timing would have been better because then the chances of him being too tired would be greatly reduced. there are very few times that i would turn down a bj from the love of my life, but that doenst mean those times don't exist. and anyone who says otherwise, is lying and pandering for brownie points.
I love aggressive women. I think it's hot when they'll let you pleasure them how THEY want, not how you want.
But to me this brings up another question. Could you be with a hornier woman? I woke my ex up by going down on him and it annoyed him, said that he'd rather keep sleeping. I still am offended by that. In all my relationships I've wanted it more.
You could be right, given the fact that I have not been married, or lived with a gf. But I can definitely tell you that he should have gone along with his wifes move the other night, and not just get head than fall asleep. He shouldve progressed all the way up to explosive sex. Because he communicated a desire for her to change, and she made an effort. Back on topic, I think this is a old way of thinking that still has a good hold on society. Back when women were considered on a lower social level than men, it was obviously not encouraged for women to express themselves. So there's that. I wish there was more of a balance between that and then the women who go way more proressive and fuck a shit ton of guys. If that is what makes them happy it's cool. But I have a hard time trusting girls like that with emotions.
May you one day find your freak... (me too for that matter.. ) Just remember guys how much control you have over our self esteem. I love how the guys here have explained if they aren't in the mood, then they LOVINGLY explain the reason to their partner, and let them down gently. "I'm too tired", and rolling over and going back to sleep is not the way to handle it. Today my sister thinks she's ugly and says she'll never try anything like that again with him. I mean, she shaved her legs and everything people!!
Well, I made a post regarding something like that earlier. Basically, we all have times when we'd rather do something non-sexual than sexual. Don't be offended by that any more. Say, if you woke ME up by doing that, I don't think I'd be annoyed by it. I also don't really know whether or not I'd be awake enough to be able to put effort into holding back the urge to cum. If you don't mind my being a 10-second wonder, then by all means give it a shot. Oh, yeah..... We're not talking about me, I forgot.... *shuts up*
Communication is the key, as I've always said. A guy's GOT TO at least acknowledge and respect how much effort a girl's put into bringing herself to do that for him. Any guy who fails to do so needs to learn, and any guy who fails repeatedly might as well be put under the schmuck category.
Shugs , u could wake me up because yer sneezing and id be happy...id prolly have a "hard" attack if u woke me in a sexual way....tell yer sis jus cus her bf/hubby was unresponsive to her uber kind gift , dosnt lessen her sexyness....to be awoken by yer lover in that way...man , id have to be the most tired ive ever been not to respond in kind.... ..and shugs , yer WAAAAY more attractive then Heather Locklear...she couldnt carry yer loofa fer gosh sakes
haha..That's right! I swear we get more pissed over stuff like that. If she had not have shaved her legs this would not be near as big of an issue..
Yep, it's a secret code for me... if she tells me she's shaving her legs today... I just know. Don't make any plans... clean up... shave... smooth face required... no need for beard burned legs... I will be performing tonight. Like it or not. It's cool. I ALWAYS love it...
I want some of what ya'll have been smoking. There is no way I'm anywhere near the Heather Locklear category. Paaalease. You're just way too sweet to me Nick..