How do you know a Woman is Interested in you ?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Captain Scarlet, Oct 8, 2022.

  1. Captain Scarlet

    Captain Scarlet Lifetime Supporter

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    The Blame Game

    I admit ,I fell for this one hook line and sinker .

    I was on a "Works Christmas do " and so I wasnt with my wife this night and perhaps as well :)

    Again a busy bar and a very lets say opportunistic class 9 Brunette . I dont normally go for brunettes but if I was single I would have made an exception for this one , very attractive ,confident and cheeky .

    I was going to the bar for a refill when suddenly this brunette let out a yelp .
    She said "You stood on my foot "
    I said " I was no where near you "
    She said "Arnt you going to say sorry ? "
    I said to keep the piece "Sorry"
    She said "Thats better and now give me a kiss"
    So I did .......................................on the cheek that is lol
    You see she got me , Entered into a conversation and we had a laugh .
    She got a drink out of me as well .
    Another devious female ploy to start a conversation .

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  2. Ray Roberts

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    Quite a topical subject for an oldie to make a contribution, but I delve into the memory bank (nearly 60 years ago) to make my submission.
    I lived & worked 3 hours away from my parents house, so most weeks I stayed for 5 days away and then back to my parents house on Friday evenings. I usually arrived sometime between 7pm and 8pm and my mother was addicted to Coronation St on TV, a product that still runs today, I hated it and always ended up walking their dog. So this summer day I started my dog walk and within a few minutes this blond goddess appeared walking towards me in bare feet, certainly unusual in the UK on the pavement. She was all in black, tights and a tank-top as she walked ever closer to me looking like a Marilyn Monroe look-a-like, with her big tits, long blond hair and body swinging away in a very sexy, an unbelievable sight and as we passed we exchanged a smile. Wow I walked a few yards and turned around for another look at her backside just as she did the same, only this time she walked back to me and spoke in broken English she was an Au-pair, Swedish and working for a Doctors family in Leicestershire starting a month long holiday at our south coast beachside resort town. She said it was her 1st day and she was lost but she could not remember where her rented house was but she had a piece of paper with the road name on it. I knew where the road was so explained to her where it was and she thanked me and we went our separate ways. I walked along the beach cursing myself for not being bold enough to make more contact and reduced my doggie walk going back into the town, but by a different route. To my amazement here she was walking towards me again. Laughing away and saying how lucky she was to meet me again as she was again lost! This time I suggested I walk her to their rented house. She was 18 and I was 22.
    I didn't get home until 10pm near dark, however now I had her address and a date to show her around the town the next night. Our dates were repeated every weekend for the next month and then I made trips to Leicester and she visited me on her weekends off. She later described how she had followed me around the town and the beach and purposely looked lost to try to grab my attention. This led to a long distant relationship for nearly three years. I used to visit her in Sweden but the relationship was doomed as when we met she was determined to study at Uppsala University and all Swedish women seemed to be open and have film star potential. However the young guys were also adonis's, tall, lean and sporting types and (unlike me) brash and pushy with the girls. I knew it would be a miracle for her to survive three years living in shared dormitories.

    PS I have only one picture of her left (a thumbnail of her face) that was left in an old wallet. A few years later my 1st wife stayed for awhile in my parents house and whilst I was away she came across my box of letters and pictures - many nudes on the baltic Islands - in a fit of rage she burned the lot. So I still have just one picture of my Swedish beauty.
     
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  3. Candy Gal

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    Oh dear. That is sad to read..
    My hubby still has photos of his past Girlfriends.
    I would never get rid of them.
    One cannot erase the past, it is part of what he is now.
     
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  4. Ray Roberts

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    Hi Candy sorry to come across as "sad" it was all part of life and whilst I was sad at the time I have never dwelt on it for long. I have had a wonderful life and enjoyed many happy times with numerous partners, it's just that I would have loved the pictures to post one on your Autumn Beach segment!
     
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  5. Candy Gal

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    I would love some Autumn photos for the competition.
    Autumn/Fall photo contest.
     
  6. Piobaire

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    I'd be wary of anyone who had such poor taste and low standards.
     
  7. Captain Scarlet

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    The Dancing Queen


    As the title says this is one for the dance floor and a guy needs to be a confident at dancing .A guy who is confident here is onto a winner as many guys arnt confident and women tend to pack the dancefloor .

    Generally if a woman likes you she will establish eye contact on the dance floor and gravitate towards you .Some women are more subtle than others and the application of alcohol also has an effect .

    Now my rules are what happens on a dance floor stays on a dance floor . So if she wants to get up close and personal ,I will often let her but I make sure she is the initiator . Sorry guys this for me is the exception and you have to play by her rules .I have seen guys try an initiate things on a dancefloor and many come across as creeps and in worst cases removed by the doormen . So let her come and play as its a great icebreaker but let her control the situation and respond accordingly but remember to keep your hands above her waist . After the dance if you feel confident and checked her out for rings and possible partners in the background ,then take her by the hand and buy her a drink . Before you know it you may be up close and personal off the dance floor as well.


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  8. Candy Gal

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    HA that is me. lol
     
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  9. cayo

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    But you only dance on tables!!
     
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  10. Candy Gal

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    Ok I might fall in your lap. :D:D:D
     
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  11. Captain Scarlet

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    Thats to attract prey . I mean attention . :)
     
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  12. cayo

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    I'm not that lucky
     
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  13. Candy Gal

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    You do know I am teasing! xxx
     
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  14. Captain Scarlet

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    Of course but I also know what your like when plied with plenty of wine ;)
     
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  15. Candy Gal

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    So does my hubby. He cracks the whip. Time to go to bed. lol
     
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  16. buzzgunner

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    Some of us are just plain oblivious. I've missed several potentially memorable get-togethers because the woman didn't just come up to me and say, "Let's go somewhere private and fuck!"

    From my junior year in high school, until I met my future-wife (about a six year stretch), I had enough women express interest in me that I could afford to be choosy. My one serious GF was right before I met my wife, and I was with that one for almost a year. I had to work for my wife because another guy was pursuing her at the same time. I won and we've been happily married (with the occasional bump) for over 43 years now.

    In all that time, I've had two women do everything but physically drag me into bed and both failed. The first one was a friend of several years and I totally missed all the signals. (We actually DID sleep together that night, but that's ALL we did!) The second one came on to me so fast and hard that I just reacted like a deer in the headlights. (There was a limited window as the incident took place at a wedding reception where I was best man and she was the maid of honor and we were both married, just not to each other.) The next day, on the cross-country flight home, I told my wife about it. She just laughed and told me that I should have gone for it! (I really love that woman!)
     
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  18. Captain Scarlet

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  19. Candy Gal

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    We twiddle our hair, and giggle.
     
  20. That's UNIVERSAL!
     
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