How do you kiss a girl?

I'm not advocating forcing things either.

But he's a male.

And that is why the usual female advice is only partially useful. To a woman a nice date always seems effortless.

But he still has to lead while gaging her comfort levels.

The job of a man on a date is essentially like weighing oneself on a manual scale. You push the weight just a little bit further than needed and then back. Again just a little further and back. Until the weight falls right into place.

 

I've always been the one on dates to push the envelop and take the lead. I tend to step back when in the relationship....but if I am interested I go for it.

 

Cool.

You don't wanna be the girl who stands near the guy she's interested in and starts touching her hair while looking the other way.

 

I have never figured out why my intimacy lessens when I have taken on a relationship. I get insecure then. Weirdness.

 

Interesting.

Maybe Prince Charming sweeping the fair princess off her feet makes her feel more secure in his romantic interest.

But alas!

A lot of women have been dumped after the deed for playing too hard to get

 

LMAO, I had to read that about 10 times in a row before I got it. Not you, it is me.

Anyway...this is likely true. Romance for romances sake is much easier than relationship stuff.

 

A lot of men do not like women who initiate.

I am not one of them.

 

A lot of women do not like a man that does not initiate.

All you can do is ride the waves of the moment and whoever feels the want, need and desire to connect in an intimate way, will grab the opportunity and get what they want. That's why you can't plan that stuff.

 

I do prefer initiating myself.

Though the vicissitudes and emotional risk involved in initiating toward a woman force me to carefully pick my battles

 

put all your love into a kiss

I've had electricity numb my tongue and lips from kisses, before.

powerful . .

 

i'm glad i'm not the only one here who finds light sockets to be irresistibly erotic...

 

glad to hear that my emotional immaturity and changing moods is shared by most women. I was thinking it was some kinda flaw on my end. I spend so much time working on this portion of my personality.....but it sure is difficult to be centered.

I had to look up vicissitudes by the way. You knew I would have to though didn't you its a jab for the whole 'partake' thing:cheers2:

 

I feel it in my heart. Everything just opens up and expands.

 

some know how to move energy
others are simply energy in motion

 

and then some of us just burn our lips...

 

hahaha....underwear boy, you be funny.

I think you should make yourself a cape and be an underwear super hero

 

You've never received an electric kiss?
Open up, like Marie said.

 

shhh... don't reveal my alter ego!

i'll admit i was pretty drunk at the time, but i don't recall any of that sort of energy...

 

yep its real energy too.
Shame we in the West dont believe it as much.

 

In truth, sometimes it pays to throw caution to the wind and wing it