How do you get a guy into your bed??

certain old men like women your age, because things haven't started to sag yet. more often, men date younger women because they have to, because so many women refuse to date guys their own age.

anyway, one year difference is the same age.

as far as relationships, all real life women do is troll. why not bring it online too?

 

Man sized fly paper.

 

assuming he keeps his dictionary in his bed...

 

I keep saying just hand cuff em lol

 

Not how do you keep them in bed.... How do you get them in bed? I'm not to sure I am ready for your answer.

 

Ah forget him...Are you interested in girls??

 

I already said that too

I handcuff you and take you to bed :devil:

 

Hmmmmmm

 

Bad start. Welcome to the teeming ranks of the cocktease.

 

Oh puhhlease. You are all totally clueless about what some of the other chics get up to. And as girls you are totally clueless as to what womanhood has in stall for you.

BitterastheCud, great user name BTW, it is in your best interest to learn pretty quickly that older woman are the enemy, even though you'll turn into one, but plenty of time later on to get stuck being some boring guys housemaid. This is the kind of advice they give you, doesnt sound bitchy at all does it.


Now, whats really going on. The eat your cock thing, it isnt something most 19 yr olds would do, and would come off very intimidating, he may indeed be into you, but after hearing that will assume you are a girl that expects porn star talent in the bedroom, when he knows he more like a guy that you could time boiling an egg by.

Guys are mostly talk, you have to babysit that ego. But on the other hand its a circular argument, if you do have to babysit that ego they aint going to be any good in the bedroom anyway.

19, if you just want to have fun, go with the players, they at least are going to know what they are doing. Get some hot jiggy jiggy experiences under your belt while your young so you dont end up one of those women that have 200 books of cookie and muffin recipes in the kitchen and a bathroom that could blind Stevie Wonder cos its getting scrubbed clean 5 times a week in much the same way her clitoris isnt.

Guys are easy, only guys that arent getting any say that. He must be gay if he doesnt want to fuck you, only ones that are in the closet say that. If he was gay he'd be able to take you to a rave, play bodyguard and help you get laid.

Straight guys like younger women? at 19 it is actually more about you being pretty, cute, adorable,...not really as much about sex as you may think. Or that the pretty is more valueable to them then the sexy, if that makes sense. A pretty girl, keep it innocent and its like a little ray of sunshine, like Emma Watson out of those Harry Potter movies, oh she's so pretty. Whereas they start having sex with you and the angry beaver is let out of the cage and you naturally start to gold dig and turn into Kim Kardashian, every mood swing is the guys fault

Which brings us back to:

 

no not me - but i've seen it happen so many times.

i'm not too bad with women

not great

but i know not to bother chasing girls like that.

 

every time.

 

and for the record...

young girls are exactly that

young.

there's too much drama for me - if i'm being honest.

to agree with an earlier post

men go for younger women because they seem to be attracted to older men.

i'm better with 18 year old girls (kids, basically) now than when i was 18

and actually would have like to have been

go figure.

 

Wow, loads of good responses.
So... I don't get it? If he doesn't want to, he's gay? What if he's just not into me? That is a possibility right? Cos not all men are sex fiends are they? (From all I've seen is they are).
And I'm quite innocent, I have that look about me which I suppose older men would go for. But I don't know if he thinks I'm too young or whatever.
And I'm no slut. I go after guys I like, not any Bobby with a dick! And it's rare when I like someone like that.
I just wanna know what to say to make him see me slightly differently without sounding weird or childish or aggressive!

 

Honestly, just ask him out. Call it a date even. Go to the movies.

and then!

Say goodnight when it's over and ask if he'll go out with you again next week!


Crazy I know.

 

when you walk in front of him subtlety roll yer ass. A woman I fancied did that at her work when I'd been looing at her face and she could tell I fancied her so she did that as a signal.

 

no she didn't and no real guy would consider that to be a signal.

 

Ask him for sex using only morse code.

 

I often wonder if it was what it seemed but ultmiately it was pretty unmistakable but it's unlikely I'll ever know what she was thinking and as for yer latter point well sorry but you're obviously just trying to make me seem crass or something. I had a woman once rub my leg under the table no doubt you'll try and say that wasn't a signal either.

 

no, that sounds like a signal.

 

Gently slip your hand into his crotch. That's a universal signal that you want his dick. If he doesn't respond to that, he's not into you at all, or he's gay. Don't stroke him any more than it takes to get him hard. Then it's up to him to make the next move.