I'm not going to write my whole life story here. Long story short, I am falling in love with someone. It has become so apparent to me, there is no need for an explanation. I am 18 years old and a freshman in college, and I have never been in a relationship before. The sex I've had and the women I have hooked up with were all at parties. I simply don't know how to treat someone I love. My intuition when it comes to intimacy all entail rough, drunk sex, aggressive making out and sadly, the lack of appreciation for a women's body. How do I kiss her? How do I have sex with her? How do I show her I love her (when the time is right)? I know true love is not planned, and that everything should come from the heart, but this is too good of an opportunity to be going by my gut feelings. I want to take this slowly and carefully. Any help would be appreciated
True love is not about sex...although, that can be an expression of it, of course....but it is more about stroking someone's hair or head.....a gentle touch, a butterfly kiss....gentleness and tenderness......i think if you truly fall in love with someone, this will come natural.....You want to be there for them, protect them, help them, do things for them...listen to them.....all natural part of it.
It is kind of difficult to tell someone how to make love. Ideally it should come naturally but if it doesn't the best advice I can give is to be slow and gentle. And also don't feel like you have to make love everytime, there is nothing wrong with a little rough sex occasionally with someone you love. Outside of the bedroom treat her like a best friend. I mean, I guess, I might be weird in that regard. I don't really like to be coddled, I just like having a great buddy I can also have sex with.
Using your left hand, gently stroke her clitoris with the very tip of your penis. Use your right hand to simultaneously squeeze her boobs, taking turns, left boob to right boob. Whack her labia a couple of times using your shaft. Straddle her stomach; try to force your penis into her belly button while kissing her forehead. Slap her gently across the face. Push her off the bed. Spread her legs open and stand before her, whacking her forehead with your penis. Okay, foreplay is done. Bend her over the bed and insert your penis into her vagina. Don't move; just hold it there. Wait until she becomes confused. Whisper into her ear "Are we having fun yet?" Then begin sliding your penis slowly in and out of her vagina while slapping her buttocks with both hands. Laugh while you do this, exclaiming, "Isn't this fun? Weeeee!!" Remove your penis before you ejaculate. Ejaculate into your hand and wipe the cum gently across her cheek.
Just be yourself. Love is not mechanical. It is something spontaneous....so do things only if you feel like doing them.
Great advice! Also, true love is not selfish. My experience is if you treat her with respect and like a queen, she in turn will treat you like a king. Just take things slow. Don't expect sex right away. If she is truly that special, she'll be worth waiting for and it will be that much more special when it does happen.
