I see my dad from time to time. It's mostly the fact that she came out of nowhere and now talks to me like she knows me. She is impressed with herself because she went to medical school and is a doctor, but I think she is stupid. She walks around doing childish things. For some reason, my dad bought her a $100,000 car and she lives in his newly refurbished house. She has a whole room of the house dedicated to Rob Thomas of Matchbox 20. It's just the fact that she acts like she is anything but a stranger to me. The cashier at Wal-Mart is a stranger to me just as much as she is. So they should be around my kids the same amount. Would you resent a stranger coming up to your babies crib? My grandma doesn't like her, either. She is moody and acts like she owns the place. Who is she? Consult a family tree. Can't find her. It's more just "why would she be?" And that she would assume it's her right to be. She has a daughter. If her daughter had a kid, would it be appropriate if a complete stranger came around? Would she have a problem with that?
I can see your point of resentment..... There is a difference between confidence and just taking over because you think you have the right to, and walking all over everyone in the process. I have seen alot of shows, where men buy women all kinds of things, as they are pussy whipped..... Maybe that is why you resent her....as maybe you resent that. Ask your dad if it is true love or that.... I would resent someone like that, as well trying to take over my life..... Tell her to back off. Maybe she needs someone to tell her that. and don't worry about children that have not come along yet, from what I understand.....
well as a serious answer to your OP, the only person who has a legal right to your child is the other parent and sometimes the grandparents if they choose to pursue it in court. Obviously your dad's girlfriend has no legal right to your nonexistent children.
I am beginning to feel that this is just another troll thread to lite dynamite somewhere and cause some kind of result.
Be here now. You've picked an odd thing to hypothesize and fret about. She's a doctor and dumb? That's a new one.
You could always buy a bubble to keep your future child away from the world and any conflict that the world contains.
Ermm I think you will have time to figure it out by the time you have children (if you have children). As a normal assertive adult you will be able to keep her away from your child(ren). I understand you have frustration though, I think you may be better off thinking about your more immediate problems !
BTW They are family now to your dad, if she is in a serious relationship with her. However if he has not considered your feelings then certainly that leaves a lot of room for him to be in the wrong in the situation... Without a lot more information, we can only tell very little. But do not worry the day will come when you will be free of this woman.
First you have to find someone to copulate with before you need to worry about some stranger that's been in your life for 28 years. and this
OP, yes you can keep her away from your future children. But ... that means that your dad is going to stay away as well. There are laws and lawyers that can keep her away from you and your kids. But there aren't laws that will either keep her away from your dad or require your dad to visit with the kids, leaving her behind. Yes, you can keep her away from your future children. The price is that your kids won't see their grandfather very much. You're the mom, you decide. Which is harms your children more, being around this woman or having a non-relationship with their grandfather. (P.S. She's been warming his bed for how many years? Don't ask him to choose between you and her, you won't like the answer.)